Weekend Preview

Christa and I were originally going to be part of the Engaged Encounter retreat sponsored by the United Methodist Church. Unfortunately, only two couple signed up for it so it got canceled. That freed up the weekend nicely. It also gives me an opportunity to get some things done this weekend.

• XBox 360 Playing Time - Who am I kidding? It's going to happen.
• Watch a Movie - Christa and I wanted to see "300". Now we will have the chance to see it.
• Clean My Apartment - I will be hosting three socials for prospective RHD candidates. If they get the job, they will be getting my apartment. I figured they should see it.
• Wedding Preparation -Christa and I have a few more invitations to get out and also have some other wedding planning stuff to do.

Should be fun. Give me a call this weekend. I'll be around.

Geek Information

I thought I might enlighten the less geeky on two interesting things that were brought to my attention in recent days:

Star Wars Stamps
You can have a say in the new Star Wars stamps coming out from the United States Postal Service. May be they think they can mask the price hike (to $0.41) by coming out with this nice, geeky collection. You can even have a vote in what stamps they uses. Start here!

"The Gamers"
My friend Nick brought this movie to our most recent AD&D session and since the session was canceled, we watched this movie. It was created and produced by the Dead Gentlemen. Regardless on your level of knowledge about role-playing games, you will find this movie very funny. It has the quality of a student film and brilliantly captures the culture and humor to be found in AD&D and similar games.

That's all for today folks.

The Bike Returns

Depending on where you are in the country (or the world), you may not necessarily know about the unseasonably warm weather we have been having in Oshkosh. Yesterday, it got up to 75 degrees. We broke a 40 year old regard for a high temperature.

Still not necessarily sure what I was going to do with my little brother on Monday night, he suggested that we go bike riding. He had a point; the weather was wonderful! So, I got the bike from out of storage. it only had a little dust and the tires needed a little bit of pumping up. It felt great to be outdoors and it also felt good to get back on the bike.

Hopefully the weather holds up. Running is a lot easier when the weather's warm.

Mmm...video games

For those of you that are curious, I am pretty much back to normal after the wisdom tooth work. I am eating as I did before and I was able to run and lift weights today. I am going back to the oral surgeon's office this afternoon for a follow-up. Let's hope everything is progressing as it should.

Many thanks for Mark Medinger and Nick Sayner for giving me some games to try out for the XBox 360. I rented Saint's Row as well to give that a whirl. It was OK, but I did get tired of the game after awhile.

I then rented The Godfather for the XBox 360. This game is pretty sweet. I plan on purchasing it after I turn in my rental copy. There is something about actually going through a plot line that runs along with the movie that is cool. You can rob banks, steal shipment trucks, take over warehouses, extort businesses, bribe cops (or kill them) and work your way up in the Corleone family. Good times.

I am finding some real utility to renting games first. You can get a real sense if the game is for you before you buy it. Like Nick, I am also considering a membership with Gamefly. It might prove a decent alternative to purchasing games. We'll see.

The Road to Recovery

I write to you today in a much better state than just a few days ago. I am eating solid food again and I do not feel the need to sleep and lay down all day :).

Luckily this wisdom tooth stuff only has to happen once.

I survived!

Well, the wisdom tooth surgery is done!. The picture you are seeing is about 30 minutes after I got back from the oral surgeon. Don't I look so happy?

I spent all of yesterday on the couch and overall the recovery is going well. The lowlight of the day was throwing up after trying to something. I think we tried to food up the food chain a little too fast yesterday.

I was fearful of how I'd be feeling this morning, but the swelling has not increased and I am feeling less pain today.

I will continue to keep you posted as we go. I am thinking I am going to get out there and take a walk this morning; they said no strenuous. It would be nice to get out of the apartment just for a little while.

Small Repairs

As I mentioned yesterday, it's spring break right now for the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh. As I was wrapping things up last week, I was informed by the residence life facilities office that some work was going to be done on the piping to Breese Hall. I found this curious because my staff and residents had pointed out that the basement had been humid and had smelled like steam.

As you can tell by the pictures, break periods provide an excellent opportunity to get some more major projects done around campus. Those of you who are residence hall students may not necessarily realize some of the larger projects that get done during breaks. They provide a great opportunity to catch up on projects, especially without anyone in the building...except for me.

They spent most of Monday digging out a large chunk of the ground near the high side entrance to Breese. They are examining the steam piping and it looks like it may need to be replaced. I am not sure. That makes things complicated because as part of the project will involve them shutting of the water on Wednesday. I won't have any access to water in my apartment. It should only be one day, but it is possible that it could be more. I am glad that I could get some pictures...it's quite a war zone.

Other News
For some reason my counter is off a day. I go in for my wisdom tooth work tomorrow. Fun.

Spring Break!

My spring break began on Saturday, but I haven't found time to write anything until today. On Saturday the wedding invitations were prepared and are now ready to be mailed out. That night, Nick and Shawnta invited us over to their apartment for dinner. The dinner had a "skewer" theme with main course being shish kabob and the dessert being fondue. We also had fruit skewers, shrimp skewers and sausage and cheese skewers. Yum! It was wonderful!!

Sunday and today, I have been slowly cleaning the apartment, but I have distracted by my newest purchase. I figure the XBox 360 will keep me busy while I am resting from having my wisdom teeth pulled.

UWO Relay for Life

I am participating in the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh Relay for Life. If you were interested in helping to sponsor me as part of the Breese Hall team, you can click and donate via the Internet. Thanks!

CLICK HERE!

The Semester Mid-Point Report

It is unbelievable to me that the spring semester is half over. As with every spring semester, it feels like it just started. This semester has been a great ride and much has been accomplished:

• I am feeling muscle gains in my abs, chest and arms. I am in the best shape I have been in many years. I am hoping these gains continue through the second seven weeks of the semester.
• I am excited to run a half marathon. I know I can do it! It will be nice to make it official. May there be a marathon in my future later in the summer? Perhaps...
  
• Wedding plans continue to move along. Invitations will be in the mail tomorrow. I suppose that means the wedding has to happen. I am getting more excited about the wedding and I have enjoyed helping out where I can.
• I think I am buying an X-Box 360. I know too many people that have them and the games just look so good. You may be hearing more about this soon.
• I filed my taxes yesterday. I should be getting a nice refund...which may pay for the X-Box 360!
• I will be continuing along in the ministry candidacy process as well.

Wow! Things are looking really good right now. A relaxing spring break will be wonderful.

To all of my Breese residents & staff. Have fun, but be safe!

Ten Miles...

The running craziness continues. To continue the build in the half marathon, I went out for a 10 mile run this morning. Thanks go to Eric Minix joining me on the first five mile loop. It was much appreciated. Although my body is sore, it is not as sore as it was last week for the nine mile run. We'll see if that holds up for the rest of the day. Less than a month until the half marathon.

I Look Forward...

...to a time in my membership at First United Methodist Church in Oshkosh where members of the church will give the staff an opportunity to do their job. I look forward to a time in my membership when drama will not the focus of my spiritual energy. I look forward to a time when I will not be worried about who is calling at home or on my cell phone because it will be about church business. I look forward...

...to better news. I am signed up for the July ministry inquiry retreat for the Wisconsin conference. I am pumped!

Brief Thoughts

I have a few minutes before I move on to my next meeting...gotta love Tuesdays.

I did some interval training with Mike Chastain this morning. We ran eight sets of 400 meter strides with 200 meters rest. it was brutal, but it felt good! I am glad Mike was able to be up and keep me moving this morning.

The weightlifting continue to go well. All of my exercises have progressed in the weight i am lifting. My physical trainer is happy with the gains I am making and is pleased with the consistency that I have shown with the workouts.

I look forward to seeing the differences in my physical shape from January 1 for June 1. Should be good.

Weekend Potpourri

Today I thought I might highlight some of the interesting happenings from the weekend:

• I ate a 32 ounce porterhouse steak on Saturday. For you metric folks, that's two pounds of meat. Mmm...delicious.
• Christa and I are anticipating getting invitations out this coming weekend. We not have almost all of the materials that we need.
• We have another "situation" at the church. I never realized this committee chair position was going to have so many snags to it.
• The gaming session on Sunday went as well as could be expected. I was a little preoccupied with church-related business so I did not have as much time to prepare as I would like.
• I presented a program about music for residents in the hall. For those that showed up, it was a good time.
  

Happy Birthday Dinner

Christa and I will be heading out this afternoon to join my parents at The Porterhouse for dinner to celebrate my dad's birthday. It was actually on the 7th and they were going to go out last weekend, but that was the weekend of OPE. It will be nice to see my parents again, especially with Christa there.

After dinner, we will be heading to Sussex to hang out with Christa's parents before we begin the trek back to Oshkosh. We will be getting the rest of the addresses that we need for our wedding invitations. Plus we will both have the chance to catch up with our folks.

Before that, I continue to look at Community Advisor files, even on a Sunday. Such dedication. Then, it's time to finalize the AD&D adventure for tomorrow. I at least have some sense of priorities. ;)

All This Cooking...

Curses! I really should have taken a picture of last night. The Breese Hall Government E-Board decided that we should have a bratwurst and hot dog fund raiser. We held it last night with the hall government office serving as the ordering room and my apartment as the food preparation room. For the majority of the evening, I served as the grillmaster, grilling the brats and hot dogs and putting them in the over to keep warm.

My kitchen was truly hopping with cooked brats and hot dogs, a baker's rack of buns, condiments (ketchup, mustard & onions). This came only two days after I cooked dinner for my staff which also left the kitchen somewhat of a mess. I managed to stink up the hall smelling both like Parmesan cheese and now bratwurst.

I won't be cooking for a little while...the kitchen should begin to smell like normal...whatever that is.

Nine Miles!

This morning I ran for nine miles! The last time I even came close to that distance was two years ago during RHD training when Bronk and I were training for the "1/2 Marathon for Kittens". The first three miles were a little rough, but once I got into a groove it started to feel good. My muscles were sore, not so much from the running but from being in a standing position for almost 90 minutes.

I continue to look forward to the half marathon.

Bowling

Despite the inclement weather last night (more snow!) our staff ventured to Oshkosh Lanes to do some bowling. We had been planning for a few weeks, but some staff members had things that came up the last few weeks. So, yesterday was the day.

I actually had a good night bowling. I bowled a 137 my first game and a 156 my second game. I had a lot more focus that night than I have had in previous bowling opportunities. I don't bowl much anymore. I used to bowl a lot. That could attributed to the following factors:

• I used to go to a graduate school that had a national champ bowling team. This meant they had good facilities.
• Bowling in the Union only cost $1.50. Sometimes it was free if you knew the right people.
• I had more free time in graduate school.
• I had a really good friend who also liked to bowl.
• It was a good stress reliever.

In Oshkosh, bowling is expensive and the alleys smell like smoke. I don't have as much free time as I'd like. I will need to figure out how to feed this old habit.

Today, well this week...is a struggle

My supervisor gave us the day off on Monday, but I did not take this opportunity because I have too many other things going on in the next two weeks. I did decide to sleep in and try to catch up on some of the sleep that I lost over the weekend. I know that you can't make-up sleep, but I though I'd try.

I slept nine hours and felt a little better on Monday. I decided to skip running on Monday because there was no time for it and I still felt a little worn down from OPE. Sadly, Tuesday did not improve all that much. I am still tired but I am doing my best to get back into my regular
routine. I was able to run for a little while, but I still drained. I am thinking that by the end of the week, things will be close to "normal".

With all the other stuff going on in my life, I still feel behind and in some ways I am. This week will be a catch-up week so that I can be ready for CA/PA selection week. I am hoping that some free time in the office on Wednesday and Thursday will let me get back to where I'd like to be.

Sorry for today's entry not being all that exciting. It is what it is :).

OPE is Over!

Despite one of the worst storms I can remember in Oshkosh in recent memory, the Transportation Center kept to its task and shuttled people to and from Oshkosh hotels and the Gruenhagen Conference Center.

Saturday provided for some wonderful opportunities:

• I got to see Christa play with members of the jazz band. She even did some solos and she sounded really good. I have much respect for jazz solos, they can be very difficult and it puts a lot of pressure on you.
• My good friend (and wedding usher) Hal DeLaRosby came up from Platteville for the OPE social. He stayed over at my place and joined Christa and I for church on Sunday.

I am glad that OPE was over, and am also glad I was able to reconnect with many folks I have not seen in a long time.

Live Remote from GCC

I write this morning's post from the confines of Room 123 of the Gruenhagen Conference Center. We are deep into the Oshkosh Placement Exchange; we are also deep under snow :)! It appears the worst of the winter weather is over. After a lovely winter mix on Thursday, we transitioned to full out snow on Friday. The shuttle services faithfully kept its routes going despite the adverse weather.

I closed the Transportation Center yesterday at midnight and opened it at 7:00 AM this morning. Woot! I think I'll be fine for today, but when I have to open again on Sunday...that's going to sting a little bit.

My pet project during my eight hours of supervision yesterday involved drawing a dungeon for an upcoming Dungeons & Dragons adventure. Sure, I go some funny looks but it was worth it. I found the drawing to very therapeutic in what was at times a very stressful day. Hopefully the players appreciate it as well.

Unlike years before, I am actually able to get some "work" done. In addition to some gaming work, I was also able to work on some wedding planning as well.

Sub-190 Trend Weight

One of my initial goals this year was to finally get my "trend weight" under 190. I think I have mentioned this before, but my runner's log has a calculation where it takes your daily weights and creates an average so as to take into account fluctuations that may occur. This morning when I step on the scale and inputed 188.4 into program, my trend weight came up 189.9. That felt good! Now, on to the next goal, one that will probably be a little harder. I would next like to get down to a trend weight of 180.

Christa and others have commented about how it looks like I'm losing weight, but now I am beginning to see it. The "gut" that I have is still there, but it's much smaller. My muscles are beginning to become more defined and I have more energy than I have had before. I even managed to run, lift weights and eat a healthy breakfast during OPE. This is the first year I have done that.

I look forward to seeing the continued effects of exercise. I appreciate everyone's support in this endeavor.

Bad Weather...Please!

All week I heard about how bad the weather was going to be this week. I was a little worried with the Oshkosh Placement Exchange this weekend and was hoping things wouldn't be too bad. The weather report was saying that the big stuff was going to come Wednesday night with us starting the Transportation Center Thursday at noon.

Before I went to bed, I had my usual prayer. I was reminded of a scene from the movie Patton in which he asked a chaplain for a weather prayer. Patton wanted good weather to continue his invation. The chaplain created and prayed the following prayer:

"Almighty and most merciful Father, we humbly beseech Thee, of Thy great goodness, to restrain these immoderate rains with which we have had to contend. Grant us fair weather for Battle. Graciously hearken to us as soldiers who call upon Thee that, armed with Thy power, we may advance from victory to victory, and crush the oppression and wickedness of our enemies and establish Thy justice among men and nations."

Although we aren't planning on attacking anyone, we do have a mission to complete. I did not pray for good weather, I prayed for the safety of those involved with OPE. The weather is holding out and we were able to get the Transportation Center started without too many problems.

Guilty As Charged

As I had mentioned yesterday, Christa and I have been working on getting wedding invitations ready so that we can mail them out over spring break. I am bad enough at keeping in contact with folks, but I am even worse at keeping contact information up to date. I put myself in charge of compiling all of the addresses for invites. So, I definitely had some gaps to fill. And, I needed to send out the message asking, out of the blue, what people's addresses were. I'm sure it's obvious, but I tried to mask some of my shame in being bad at keeping addresses up to date.

One of my friends was able to figure it out...but, it worked!

Brain.....About to Explode

I have officially reached the most hellish part of the spring semester for me. Over the next couple weeks, many responsibilities come at once. This happens every spring and I'm ready for it, but that doesn't necessarily make it any easier.

Over the next two weeks, I have the following:

• The Oshkosh Placement Exchange (OPE) - This takes place March 1-4. For this, I have to supervise the Transportation Center 19 hours, help with 6 hours or so of interviews and just generally be available.
• NBC Village Staff Interviews - Jocelyn, Michelle & I need to conduct seven hours of interviews for folks that want to transfer to the NBC Village. We will be doing these the same weekend as OPE.
• CA/PA Selection - We will be doing this the week before spring break, but I will need to review all of the files before selection. There are a lot of files to review.
• RHD Selection - Ia m on the RHD selection team. More files and more interviews.
• The Wedding - And to top it all off, Christa and I want to have invitations out when spring break starts. So, we are compiling addresses and ordering stuff so that we are ready.

It's not everything, but it's quite a list. I list these items not to look for sympathy, but more to understand that I have quite a bit going on for the next few weeks, so you may not hear from me too much or see me as much as you usually do.

Many of us in the field of student affairs are in the same boat, so they can tell a similar story. It';s the fun of being in Residence Life. Peace.

The Snow Frog...Thank Goodness!

Today was not the day to run, but I did anyway. Some sidewalks were plowed, some were surely not. But, at least the snow was packable so it provided opportunities for students to build a variety of different snow sculptures or throw snow balls at each other.

During my morning run, I was running on Cherry Street and noticed that a house had decided to build a nice frog out of snow. It was different than the normal snow man and showed a remarkable amount of detail. *sigh* This was in marked contrast to the variety of snow penises that could be found on the UW Oshkosh campus.

To think our residence hall student couldn't find anything better to do on a Sunday afternoon than build a penis out of snow. I will give them credit...the detail in some of these sculptures, was, well, disturbing. Luckily, most of them did not survive the night or were covered with new snow.

Also, in case anyone was curious...I found the following the UW System Code:

UWS 18.06(27) - THROWING HARD OBJECTS:. No person may, in a manner likely to cause physical harm or property damage, throw, drop, kick, hit or otherwise project any hard object, bottle, can, container, snowball or other item of a similar nature on university lands or within or from within university buildings or facilities.

Saturday Potpourri

It's been awhile since I have gotten to write a Saturday entry about random stuff from the week. Here goes:

• Today at noon I will join a few of the residents of Breese Hall to create our ice sculpture for Winter Carnival. We don't really have an idea yet, but I'm sure will come up with something :).
• Christa and I will continue doing wedding planning this weekend. I have added a link to our wedding blog. You can find it in the top right corner of this blog. Check it frequently for wedding updates.
• The AD&D campaign continues to go well. I have had many folks express an interest in joining up, but there is no room. I might consider running two different groups next year, but I'm not sure yet.
• I need to get my car's oil changes, but I'm worried that when I take it to the shop this time they are going to find a bunch of stuff wrong with it. Oh well.
• The Bucks lost again...surprise, surprise.
  

Milwaukee Sports Report

Ok, so the Milwaukee Bucks just suck. This was supposed to be the season that we saw a real turn around. The Bucks had picked up some quality big men to help the front court and you always have Michael Redd. A few injuries later, this team is now one of the worst teams in the league. It's painful...I don't even just the box scores the next day anymore. I know it's going to be a loss. I hope they keep this team together next year. If everyone stays healthy, they have a shot. That requires them all to stay healthy. *sigh*

Here's to the Brewers being a breath of fresh air in the Wisconsin sports doldrums...there's a club with a legacy of winning. Oh, wait a minute. It might be a long spring and summer. Then again, maybe this is their year.

Scandal at Algoma

Last night, I attended the Ash Wednesday service at Algoma Boulevard United Methodist Church. It was a joint service with First Church. I let Jocelyn Crist, friend and fellow RHD, know about the service so we decided that we would go and sit together.

Sadly, the majority of folks in attendance were Algoma folks. However, a few First folks did attend and sat around us. As they sat down, they would look at Jocelyn and I and their glance would take a little longer than usual. Jocelyn picked up on it, too. It was not just one stare, it got to be passing glances and other stares.

I should point out that Christa has a Wednesday night class and knew in advance that Jocelyn and I were going. There was no scandal (sorry). I just found it amusing that if I hang out with a female that is not Christa, it might elicit thoughts and rumors.

Or, I'm just paranoid.

A Running Revolution...Sorta

I am excited to hear of the growing level of participation in the upcoming Oshkosh Half Marathon on April 21. As I have mentioned before, the 2nd floor Breese CA Mike is doing it. He mentioned to me that several of his residents are interested in doing it. My goodness, this might actually turn into a hall program ;).

With a half marathon comes training, and I am also excited to hear about other folks in the building that are running. They tell me that they have run 3, 4 or 5 miles. They have started weight lifting. I can only hope that my new devotion to fitness might in some small way be rubbing off on them.

Eric Minix, the NCC/WCC for UW Oshkosh will be joining me for my runs on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. He started yesterday and I will say it is nice to have someone else along for the run. Conversation always makes the run go faster. Others are welcome to join us. The catch is that I run at 7:00 AM each morning, although by the time I get up and get dressed, it's more like 7:10 AM. I run Monday-Friday. Let me know!

The countdown to the half marathon can be found in the upper right hand corner of the blog. It's getting close. My schedule running is becoming more regular and I think my body continues to adjust to a higher level of activity. Hopefully by April it's ready. :)

The National Anthem

When it comes to the US National Anthem, I am something of a purist. Based on personal beliefs and some national standards, I believe:

• that you should stand and remove your hat.
• that you should put your hand over your heart and face the nearest US flag.
• that you should not sing along. (that's just me)
• that you should never get the words wrong when you are performing it. If you need the words in front of you, do it!
  
• that you can embellish the notes a little bit. I should at least be able to recognize the melody for the most part.

This past weekend, I attended an event where someone performed the national anthem and I was honestly insulted with the performance. The singer did not really stay in key, missed one of the words and changed the melody so much you wouldn't really recognize. I was very, very frustrated. I was close to the point that I wanted to stop this individual and sing it myself. My voice might break on the high notes, but I promise you it would be sung with feeling and reverence to out country.

*steps off soap box*

My feedback to the event staff supports these feelings and I am hopeful something like this does not happen again.

WURHA 2007 Reflection

Although I had to leave WURHA right after the banquet, I still feel like I had something of a conference hangover for most of Sunday. As such, I didn't really feel up to writing an entry yesterday.

So, WURHA 2007 was a good time. I had the opportunity to present two programs on Saturday morning. One programs was about listening to music; the other program discussed more effective leadership behaviors. If a program is highly rated, it has the opportunity to be selected as a "Top Ten Program." I found out that advisor programs were not eligible for top ten.

At first I was a little frustrated about that. If my program was in the top ten, it should be in the top ten. It took my friends and colleagues Ryan and Peter to put things in perspective for me. They helped me to realize that my program possibly being in the top ten would keep a student out of the top ten. The conference is for the students.

I enjoyed being a conference guest at WURHA. I appreciated having zero responsibility and just enjoying the sights and sounds of WURHA. I also was awarded a WURHA Star Pin by the WURHA president, Kaitlin Connor. That was cool as well.

This was Christa's first leadership conference; it was nice to share the experience with her.

WURHA 2007

I have a few minutes before I leave for a consultation with the oral surgeon. Details to come...if you really want to know.

I will be leaving for WURHA this afternoon. This will be the first WURHA event since WURHA 2000 in which I will have no responsibility at the conference. I am looking forward to presenting two programs and catching up with students and colleagues at various universities throughout the state.

Before I leave, I will also be doing four hours of CA/PA interviews...lunch will get fit in there somewhere. Um, I think. ;)

Have a good weekend everyone...no post until Sunday!

Amusing Story

Thursdays are my new "long run" day on my running schedule. Today called for a 7 mile run and I mapped out a 6.83 mile run. I was making my way along the running route and was running on Main St. for quite awhile. I was looking for 20th Street, but saw a jump to 21st with no 20th. So...I ran to 24th Street hooked up with Oregon and made my way back to 20th.

It wasn't until I got to 20th that I forgot 20th stopped at Oregon; there is no Main St./20th intersection. I completed the rest of my run as mapped. When I got done, I finished the run in 73 minutes. That seemed really slow for 6.83 miles, especially given the fact that I felt really good during the run and felt my pace was pretty fast. I check the run and sure enough I only the route going to Oregon which would allow access to 20th Street.

Re-mapping the route, my run was actually 7.83 miles. That was pretty sweet.

The good news is that I felt like I could have kept running when I was done...maybe 13.1 miles is not so out of the question.

On a side note, I began my weight training yesterday. I'll keep you posted on how that's going.

Happy Valentine's Day

Check out this Valentine's Day card (with thanks to Ashley): COOL CARD

New Book Series: Left Behind

I have recently started reading the book Left Behind. It is the first in a series of 12 books that tell a story of the Earth's last days. I am about 25% through the first book. I must say the plot line is very good and I am getting drawn into the storyline. I have heard that the plot line gets very deep and the characters are very well developed.

My only dislike of the book right now is some of the historical context that the authors lay out for the world of today. I won't go into details, but some of it is a stretch. I realize it's a work of fiction, but when you are trying tell a story of the modern world, some of their changes feel a little out of place.

If you've read these books, let me know what you think.

A New Addition

I went out for a four-mile run this morning. My pace was faster this morning that it has been for a few weeks. I am assuming that the "warmer" temperatures are allowing we to warm up and stretch the pace out a little bit. After the run this morning, I made my way over to the Kolf Sports Center on campus and did eight 100-meter strides on the track.

If you aren't familiar with a stride, you basically take half of the 100 meters and build up to a speed that is not quite a sprint. You maintain this pace for the remaining portion of the distance. I have been waiting until I built up some mileage before I incorporated strides. It is also my intent to start building in one day of speed work each week as well. Hopefully, as the weeks go by we will see some improvement in the mile pacing.

Also concerning additions, I have added a wedding and half-marathon counter to the web page. You, too, can witness the impending doom....I mean, joy! :)

Sunday Reflection

It was nice to go to church this morning and be among the congregation. My parents drove up this morning and Christa was off from teaching. We were all able to sit together and enjoy the service together. It was also nice to sit down with everyone at the fellowship hour and spend some quality time together.

To know that after a refreshing church service and conversation, I had the opportunity to again get to play AD&D. This was truly a blessed day.

Saturday Potpourri

So, what's been happening? Here's my opportunity to catch up:

• Wow...Christa accomplished a lot with the wedding today. It got a little frustrating today as well. We picked reception music today, which can for two music people can be very frustrating. It's done though...and we have a good list. We are also in the process of finalizing the guest list. This is also very much a bear. I am going to create the master guest list. Good times.
• Christa and I ate at Victoria's yesterday. It is on College Ave. in Appleton, WI across from the Performing Arts Center. They have some of the best Italian food I have ever tasted. I had the scallops with the marsala sauce. Christa has a humongous plate of spaghetti. You have to try it.
• Gaming day number two takes place tomorrow. Excitement seemed high after session number one. Hopefully this enthusiasm keeps up!
• Ok, so maybe it's not an overly exciting week ;).

Engaged Encounters

Coming up on March 30-April 1, Christa and I will be heading to the Fond du Lac area for an Engaged Encounters retreat. This event is sponsored through the Methodist Church and it gives couples looking to get married an opportunity to dialog about what it means to be married and it helps couples to realize that a wedding is a one-day event; a marriage is a life-long commitment.

I must say I am intrigued by this event. I had never heard of it before. In speaking with our pastor, he said it would be a great event to attend. It also means we need to begin our meetings with Steve to get things for the wedding together.

Christa and I are also using this weekend to get all details for the wedding planned. Not done, but planned. Hopefully, we'll have everything covered. :)

Dentist Visits Are Never Dull

I went to the dentist for a cleaning yesterday. The good news is that I didn't have any cavities. I did receive some valuable information about flossing and I will now be using ACT fluoride wash. I did receive some more sobering news...

...I need to have my wisdoms teeth pulled. *sigh* My dentist gave me a referral form for a oral surgeon in the area. I will be making an appointment as soon as possible. I made it all the way to 30; I thought I could make it a little longer. I am hoping to have this taken care of during the summer when not too much is going on...we'll see.

I also still have a baby tooth. My dentist gave me a variety of options. I can leave it there and see how long it lasts. His father had a baby tooth his entire life. I can have braces to make room for the baby tooth to come out and have the adult tooth come in (painful and expensive from what I can gather). or, I can remove both teeth and have a bridge where the tooth would be. Too many options, but for now I think I'm going to keep the baby tooth and see what happens.

Dentist trips are always exciting.

Reacquainting With Old Friends

After our staff meeting last night, I had a little time to kill before hall government. I thought I would try prepping for my Sunday AD&D adventure, but I didn't feel like working on that. So, on the spur of the moment, I busted out Guitar Hero. After playing Thunderhorse, Freebird and Mother on Guitar Hero 2, it made me wonder why I hadn't played in so long.

Similarly, while I was showering this morning I wonder why I hadn't started any games of E-mail Scrabble. So...I did.

I try to have a variety of hobbies. However, sometimes I get focused on one hobby that I forget about others. I think we can all be guilty of getting caught up in one thing and liking it, but forgetting about the other things in life that we forget. I suppose that idea goes well beyond hobbies and it can relate to friendships, relations, academics, etc.

I also think part of it is that I have been so busy lately, I think to myself that I don't have time to play video games. There's always time for video games.

Credit Card Debt

As I was driving back to Breese Hall last night, I heard on the radio a commercial about how you can consolidate your debt. Specifically, this company worked with credit card companies to consolidate credit card debt. The claims about savings that they were making seemed quite substantial.

To qualify for their services, you must have at least $10,000 of debt. Wow. I knew of someone who had $7,000 of debt, but I never realized people got themselves into debt to that amount.

Credit cards indeed have a corrupting power and obviously allow us to spend beyond our means.

Weight/Exercise Update

I went out and purchased a new scale last night. The one that I had was over 6 years old and I always felt like it was not very accurate. I went to Walmart and purchased a scale that breaks weight down to the 0.2 pound increments...pretty sweet. It is guaranteed accurate for 150 years.

I weighed myself this morning and I was...190.2. I was a little worried because I have been on a 6-days streak of being 193. I was waiting for the next plateau to break. It did. After my run this morning, I was under 190. I can't tell you the last time I weighed 190. It would have to be during undergrad.

So, I am definitely seeing the benefit of all this exercising. I will be beginning my weight training regimen starting later this week and into next week. I will keep everyone posted concernign the results :).

Confession/Gaming

I must start off by confessing that I did not run today. I was supposed to. There is a -35 degree wind chill out there today and I had no desire to go anywhere outside today! I promise that I will find some alternative for running tomorrow because I do not want to anything like this up.

Yesterday, I had six folks join me for a session of Advanced Dungeons and Dragons. I had current residents, past residents, students from other halls, colleagues and old friends. It was an eclectic mix of folks. We played for about 4 hours, although the first hour was spent more in preparation. So, I am excited for this Sunday when we'll have four solid hours of gaming.

It had been so long since I gamed. I am excited to have a group together that will be playing consistently week to week. You can read more about the campaign at our Campaign Page.

Saturday Potpourri

There are a few loose ends I would like to cover today. It has been a little while since I have done a potpourri:

• Nick coming up to visit today. He is coming to create a character for the upcoming AD&D campaign. We will also be talking a little about the wedding as well as just hanging out. It will be great to talk to him again.
• Tomorrow is adventure #1 for the AD&D that I am starting. It has been over 5 years since I have done anything that is remotely like gaming. I am going to be rusty in being a Dungeon Master and some of my players have never played AD&D before. Christa asked if I was excited; I am now! :)
• Today is the "Bowl for Kid's Sake". I have raised over $130 for this event. I will be bowling with other student affairs folks from UWO. It should be fun.
• Christa and I are now finalizing the gust list for the wedding. There are going to be some tough decisions to make.
• It's the Superbowl tomorrow. Breese is going to have a kickin' party. Come check it out!
  

Despair, Inc.

How's that for a title? If you are at all familiar with the Successories line of products, they are know for pictures that have a word/statement underneath the picture with an inspirational quote or thought underneath. If you work at a university or in the business world, you will see these posters and other items everywhere. To me, they are often sappy and a little overdone.

So...

...I was excited when I found the website for Despair, Inc. It is a parody of the Successories product with a more cynical view of the working work. My favorite example is the one they have for meetings:Now that's funny. I suggest you check out the website. They are pretty funny. You can customize your own calendar, among other product options.

Calling All Exercisers!

Mike Chastain (the Breese 2nd floor CA) and I were talking about running recently and he mentioned a website that would actually allow you to map out your runs and it would tell you the distance. I did a little exploring and found a website called: mapmyrun.com.

If you run, walk or bike this website will be very helpful for you. It allows you to pick a home address and you can plot courses all over the map. You can create a profile and you can save the routes that you have created.

Mike was right...this works much better than a pedometer. :)

One Month Exercise Review

Today is the last day on January. As of today, I have run 98 miles in the month of January. When I started exercising on the 1st, I weighed 200 pounds. I now way 193 with a "trend weight" of 194.7. That is a weight loss of a little more than one pound a week, which is a safe amount and something I am very happy with.

It is nice to have completed a unit of time with running...one month.I look forward to the month of February so I see if I continue the gains found thus far.

Apartment...must....be....cleaned!

My apartment is a total mess right now! I was in the middle of my winter cleaning project when my computer decided to die on me...it put a lot of work on until I could get that figured out. Plus, with training and the second semester beginning I did not have time this past weekend to do the usual weekend cleaning that I do.

Among other things, I decided that the computer desk I had in my room was not fulfilling it s task. It allowed too much dust to collect in my computer, so it had to go. I converted another desk that I had to that duty, but disposing of the hold desk is kind of a pain because there is a lot to it. It has made a few moves, so it is rickety and I wouldn't want anyone else using it. With the desk transition there is a lot of additional clutter in the apartment.

When it's all done, I think things will look really nice. But, for now...it's bad. I will put up pictures with the new layout this week. I hope to do a lot of cleaning tonight if and when I find time.

Other News:

• Christa had her Jazz Band audition yesterday. She hasn't heard anything yet. We continues to wait.
• The first SPRC meeting came and went. We have a lot of work to do.
  

Oshkosh Half Marathon

This morning I started my fourth full week of running. Yesterday I bought a new pair of running shoes so it was nice to get them into action. I can definitely feel a difference; there is more support in the heel and ankle area. Interestingly enough, despite the benefits, I ran quite a bit slower than usual. Given the fact it was barely above freezing and that it was snowing were probably the contributing factors. Plus, it was Monday! Regardless, the 4.5 mile felt good.

Last night I also signed up for the Oshkosh Half Marathon. It is April 14, 2007. For those of you that may not know, that is a 13.1 mile run. I have also wanted to run a marathon in my lifetime; this event will be a good stepping stone to that end. The weather should be warmer and I have run 13 miles a couple times in my life. I know I can do it. I have plenty of weeks of training before the event.

What I have to fight is the fact that I have signed up for half marathons twice before and have dropped out of running before I got to them. This time I will not.

Sunday Reflection

The bell choir played this morning in church. We played a piece called God of Abraham Praise. It had a Jewish folk feeling to it. However, it seemed a strange fit right after the epistle lesson in the service. Either way, we played the piece better than we ever have, so we had good timing.

One of these Sundays Christa and I will get to sit together for church. Hopefully, Christa gets a partner to teach Sunday School so she can get a few Sundays off. I've talked about this before, but it's important to us.

I have my first SPRC meeting tomorrow. I have not even started an agenda yet. I am going to need to find time for that...soon!

The students move in today. While there is not as much fanfare this time, it is always nice to see the full complement of folks back in Breese. The energy comes back and the building feels more like home.

My New Staff

We are almost done with mid-year training here in Breese Hall. We just got done playing a game called Cranium. If you have never played the game, I highly recommend it. It was a lot of fun to see my staff relax and have a good time. I could tell that the day was getting a little long for them, but I really saw them connect this evening.

During the morning, my returning staff had the opportunity to build a tower as part of a team-building activity. Here is a picture of my returning staff working hard and building the tower. As with all things, this staff had fun in the process and built a rather unique construct, without talking.

Christina became a full member of the staff over the weekend. I do not have a picture of her for the blog, but she has learned a lot in the last few days and has fit well into the staff. I am excited to see what this group can do for the spring semester.

The building opens for spring semester tomorrow. It will be nice to get back into a routine.

Relying on Computers

The last few days have been dominated by news and frustration about my computer. I am definitely thankful for having use of my computer back. I can keep my running journal updated (I am down to 193!), I can check E-mail and can know what's going on in the world through E-news.

Going a few weeks without a computer in my apartment makes me realize how much I rely on them for almost everything in my life. I look at all of the tabs that I have on internet browser (for starters): E-mail services, financial information, news resources, blogging, sports, gaming, cell phone, running...the list goes on. So, this time I will try to take better care of my computer.

Christa talks about how scary it is that we rely on computers so much. I can't disagree with that. Think about all the information that we put in the hands of computers. I know the information can be backed up, but you can't help but be a little weirded out.

It's Alive....IT'S ALIVE!

My computer works again! This blog is actually being written from my computer in my house. The only hang up is getting my music back onto the computer, but I can live with trying to figure that out later. Yay!

More Computer Frustrations

After an 8-hour ordeal for most of the day on Wednesday, my Dad was able to back-up my files, re-format my hard drive and gets Windows installed. Things were definitely looking up. We loaded the computer into my car and I took in back up to Oshkosh. I hooked everything up and loaded up my computer.

What should I hear, but a knocking sound in the hard drive. It is shot. So, all of my Dad's hard work is now for naught. Christa and I bought a new hard drive, but now we are having trouble getting it installed and working properly.

I will keep you posted for possible improvements.

Computer Recovery Today

I am writing to you from Mequon, WI. I am home for the day to see if my Dad can fix my computer. We were in the first stage of the rebuilding process (backing up the hard drive), but it froze in the back-up process. My Dad has the entire process mapped out, so I think we will eventually get through everything, but it will take some time.

I have a lot of friends with parents that have just recently purchased a computer and are just figuring out how to use the internet or check their E-mail. Our house has its own network with multiple computer hooked up to it. I don't know of anyone who knows more about computers than my Dad. It's like having your own IT guy in the family :). It may take him all day, but I think he can actually make this happen.

It has been nice to be home and catch up with my parents. I have updated them on the wedding as well as other goings on my life.

Two For Tuesday Movie Review

I had planned on writing about Children of Men today, and I will. However, last night I was hanging out with my little brother and the we decided to rent Crank. So, as long as I am writing about movies, I figured I could write about two.

Children of Men
I went to the film on the recommendation of Ken Fager, who said the movie was very good. I would definitely have to agree. Christa and I went to see this film over the weekend. Overall, it was a very engaging film and one that kept me in suspense because I honestly did know how things were going to end. Overall, I would give the movie a 8.0 out of 10 stars.

The Good

• I thought the acting was superb. My favorite character was the character Jasper Palmer played by Michael Caine. I doubt he would get an Academy Award nomination for his role, but her certainly deserves one.
• I liked the protrayal of the nead future, 2027. Many things are still the same but there are some components that lend themselves to increased technology. It reminded me of V for Vendetta.
• This was a unique story line with a strangely biblical feel to it. It wasn't too much, but it was there.
• The music was great, both the songs selected and the original music.
• I was intrigued by how many main characters die in this movie. Sorry if this is a spoiler, but it really surprised me.
  

The Bad

• I found the level of language and violence in the movie to be a little excessive. I suppose it had to do something with the genre of the film, but I could have done without it.
  

You really need to see this movie.

Crank
So, it's not in the same league as Children of Men. But, this is a fun movie. The plot is pretty simple. Man gets poisoned and will eventually die. The only way he can stay alive longer is to pump adreneline through his body. While he is still alive, he tries to exact revenge on those that did this to him.

What I liked about the film is that it is incredibly fast-paced. It's hard to get bored. They do some fun things with camera angles and presentation to keep the film fresh. There's a lot of action. There's quite a bit of humor. It's entertaining, which is what you're looking for.

It's obviously quite far-fetched and there are times where you are thinking, "Yeah right." But, it is what it is...a fun movie. I would give it a 6.5 out of 10.0 stars.

What a Game!

Christa came over last night to watch the NFL Football game between the Indianapolis Colts and the New England Patriots. The winner of this game would go on to face the Chicago Bears in the Superbowl. Since the first game got out of hand, I was hopefully that this game would be close and competitive. There were so many angles to this game:

• Peyton Manning (best statistical quarterback) vs. Tom Bray (best clutch quarterback)
• Brady and Belicheck are 12-1 in the playoffs
• The Colts can't beat the Patriots in the playoffs
• Peyton Manning has never won the big game; the blows it in the playoffs
• Vinatieri moved from the Patriots to the Colts

These are but a few of the angles you can take on the game. You can see the ESPN article here. I would say this is probably the most entertaining game of football that I have watched. It wasn't even a Packer game. There were key turnovers, questionable penalties, big conversions and two touchdowns scored by offensive linemen!

The Colts won 38-34. Peyton gets to the Superbowl and wins a big game. There are two African American coaches in the Superbowl. Brady/Belicheck finally go down in a big game.

If they have this on ESPN Classic, which they should, you have to watch it. A great game.

Other News:

• I broke a weight plateau and I am now down to 195. I love the progress I am making. It feels like it's not a day until I actually run.
• Tomorrow I will have my review of Children of Men.
  

Sunday Reflection

I did not get to hear the sermon in today's service. The choir was asked to sing for the Sunday School kids, so we left abotu 20 minutes into the service. There was a substitute pastor for the service this morning; I would have been interested to hear his sermon as it would have been a different style.

The Gospel reading from this morning's services was one of my favorites. It comes from the fourth chapter of Luke:

"¹⁶ When he came to the village of Nazareth, his boyhood home, he went as usual to the synagogue on the Sabbath and stood up to read the Scriptures. ¹⁷ The scroll of Isaiah the prophet was handed to him. He unrolled the scroll and found the place where this was written:

¹⁸ 'The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released,
that the blind will see,
that the oppressed will be set free,
¹⁹ and that the time of the Lord’s favor has come.'

²⁰ He rolled up the scroll, handed it back to the attendant, and sat down. All eyes in the synagogue looked at him intently. ²¹ Then he began to speak to them. “The Scripture you’ve just heard has been fulfilled this very day!”

I think I like this passage so much because I try to imagine what it would be like to be in the synagogue when Jesus said what he did. Can you see the reactions of those in attendance? I can see the feelings of anger, confusion, contempt. Who is this Jesus saying that he is the chosen one? And to say these words so calmly, so matter-of-factly. It is just a wonderful selection of verses.

Saturday Potpourri

• Christa finished her work at Webster/Stanley. Even though she was only there three weeks, the kids there definitely responded to her teaching; they were very sad to see her go. They made many cards for her and she baked cookies for them. I could tell that Christa really enjoyed her experience; I am happy that she has found a calling and sees a clear path ahead.
• The colleges students are on break until January 28. So, I get a little R&R before the spring semester begins. My staff comes back this Thursday and I start training with them that Sunday.
• I will be taking my computer home on Tuesday and will be working with my Dad to get my computer to work again. Hopefully when I get back to Oshkosh on Wednesday evening, I can check my E-mail and write blog entries from my apartment. :)
• I finished by second straight week of running. So far, so good. I look forward to a day off tomorrow. But, even more, I am looking forward to some continuing progress. I ran 24 miles this week.
  

Good News!

Yesterday, I had a meeting with the District Superintendent for the Winnebago/Nicolet Region of the United Methodist Church. In our meeting, I found out that the next step in the Ministry Candidate process is to attend a retreat in July. I am planning on attending this retreat so that I might continue on in the process.

I also found out that I have two employment options while in seminary. I can go to school full-time and be a part-time pastor in a congregation. The option that intrigued me even more was the option of going to school part-time and being a full-time student pastor for a church. The reason I was excited about this idea is that it gives Christa and I the option to live in Wisconsin. Christa could teach in Wisconsin and I could commute to school two nights a week. It also allows us to be closer to family and friends.

Knowing this has decreased my anxiety about what happens when Christa and I are done at UWO. It also helps me to realize how blessed I am and how thankful I should be.

Running Update

So, the running continues. The more I continue running, the more I think back to my days as a track and cross country runner in high school. I am sure as this blog continues you will hear more stories about my high school running days.

I joined track in high school because most of friends wanted to do track. So, I became a distance runner even thought I wasn't all that interested. I was not a runner by any means. Our first run was short, maybe 2 miles. I remember our coach asking us to take our pulse. Mine was at about 160-180 beats a minutes...we had only run one mile. It was definitely an interesting year. My race times showed consistent improvement as I truly had to "get into shape." Three years later, I was in amazing shape, eating any food I wanted, and not even thinking about my weight. I was peeking running 40+ miles a week.

Then, I got to college and let it all go.

I haven't run consistently since the age of 18. The muscle that I gained in high school is still there, but the rest of the body has degenerated. I have next to zero cardiovascular fitness. I am considered overweight, if not close to being obese on the BMI. It will be an interesting road back to some level of running competency.

Every time I have tried to start running again, the biggest hang up has been to "get over" the mileage. What I mean by this is I get caught up in thinking, "How far have I run?" If I realize I have only run two miles, I would get discouraged. It would make the runs feel longer because I kept obsessing about how long my runs were. Now, I plan out the runs before I even head out so that I'm not thinking about the distance; I simply know how I long I will have run when I get back.

The other biggest obstacle was always trying to do too much too quickly. I would usually increase my mileage too fast and I would get injured, frustrated or tired. I have four years of doing running plans, you think I would know better. But, this time it is sticking. I know it will.

I am also appreciating the many benefits of running: weight loss, increased energy, increased matabolism, and no more feelings of being lazy. It is good, and it continues...

Why Did I Keep This Chinese Religions Reader?

While I was in the office, two residents were having a discussion by the mailbox. One of them was hoping that a package would come in. I asked what he was waiting for. He said that he had ordered a copy of the Tao Te Ching. This jogged my memory and I realized that I had a copy of the Tao Te Ching. I bought it during my undergraduate days when I was exploring all religions tyring to figure out which one might be best for me. So, I told him he could borrow my copy until his came in the mail.

I then thought about my Chinese Religions Reader. To fill in a credit shortfall the year I was a CA, I decided to take a class in Chinese Religions. The class was really difficult, but I really enjoyed it and learned a lot about easterm religion. I always kept the reader that we purchased for the class because it had a lot of useful information. Times have come up where I thought about throwing out the reader because I never use it. I ended up lending my reader to this resident so that it might help him in his reading. It only took eight years, but I found a purpose for it!

It's not really a profound story...just interesting.

Sahara

On Friday night, Christa and I rented the movie Sahara. I always had a small inkling to see the movie. I thought it might have a similar plot line to The Mummy or National Treasure. I was almost right. Sahara was a tale of two movies. I thoroughly enjoyed the first hour or so of the movie. I felt as though two interesting plot lines were developing, one involving finding buried treasure and one involving solving a epidemic. Eventually, you could sense to two stories would cross. Once they did cross, the story went down hill. You have less leeway to suspend reality because it doesn't involve the supernatural. The movie just got a little out of hand.

Likes:

• Steve Zahn and William H. Macy deliver strong performances in this movie. I usually do enjoy the roles that they play.
• I liked the buried Civil War Ironclad idea.
• The music was excellent. THe film score was memorable and they also employed a lot of 70's rock throughout the movie.

Dislikes:

• Penelope Cruz...bleh. I just don't like her as an actress. She looked out of place in this action movie.
• Again, not a fan of Matthew McConaughey in this movie. His role seemed forced.
  
• Out of control plot in the second half, even for a movie of this genre.
• Others may disagree, but I would the ending a little anti-climatic.
  

Overall, I'd give it a 5.5 out of 10 stars. Moderately enjoyable; I managed to make it through the entire movie.

Snow...Sweet

Last night, Christa informed me that a Winter Storm was going to come through Oshkosh last night and today. I had not seen anything on TV of of yet, but low and behold the warning came on and we were expected to get 4-6 inches of snow. It started last night and left a pretty good layer on the ground when I woke up at 7:15 this morning.

As you have read about before, I have taken to running in the morning when I get up. Not thinking things through at 7:00 AM, I went running to discover the vast majority of Oshkosh citizens or civil servants had not plowed the sidewalks. Even some of the roads had not received any care yet. This made running interesting. Although frustrated at the time, I realized that at 8-9 AM, most plowing had begun. I just needed to wait. But, I am a creature of habit so I ran anyway.

My pedometer said I ran 4.6 miles, but I probably only ran about 3.8. The extra distance come probably from the fact that I took smaller steps to deal with the 4 inches of snow that I was often running through. Some may consider this adventure to be dangerous, or stupid. You're probably right. In addition to that, I think it show determination. I am going to keep up this running stuff. This continues to be the longest that I have made this work.

In non-running related news, the snow looks beautiful, and even at 10:00 AM it continues to snow. It is supposed to snow on and off all day. Christa is right. It's about time we got some snow.

My 3rd floor Community Advisor Darci (who leaves this week) is having a Hawaiian Luau tonight. It's perfect weather for a luau :)!

Sunday Reflection

As I reflect back on today's worship service, I both sang in the choir and played a bell solo. After playing the bell solo, I went over to the education wing so that I could participate in a lesson for the kids about the various committees at out church. The choir piece sounded great, the bell solo went fine (it was the second time I did it) and the education speech went OK. You can only do so much to explain the Staff/Parish Relations Committee to kids. They were squirrelly to begin with; my speech couldn't have helped things.

It got me thinking about everything that Christa and I do for the church. Christa teaches the pre-school kids on Sundays which can be a big ordeal (just ask her about the kids today). We appreciate helping where we can for the church, but it makes me wonder. Christa and I do not often, if ever, have the opportunity to be at church together. I'm in the choir loft and she's in the Sunday School wing. On a rare Sunday when we both might be off, we might get to be together. Many people in the church don't even know we're getting married because they never see us together.

It also diminishes our opportunities to simply sit in the congregation and be part of the service and not feel some nervousness or drive to do something related to the service. I think that's why I enjoy the summer because you have more of those opportunities.

Of course, this comes from someone who is interested in the ministry which would require participationg every Sunday. I imagine even pastors enjoy a Sunday off every once in awhile.

Sunday Reflection

As I reflect back on today's worship service, I both sang in the choir and played a bell solo. After playing the bell solo, I went over to the education wing so that I could participate in a lesson for the kids about the various committees at out church. The choir piece sounded great, the bell solo went fine (it was the second time I did it) and the education speech went OK. You can only do so much to explain the Staff/Parish Relations Committee to kids. They were squirrelly to begin with; my speech couldn't help things.

It got me thinking about everything that Christa and I do for the church. Christa teaches the pre-school kids on Sundays which can be a big ordeal (Just ask her about the kids today). We appreciate helping where we can for the church, but it makes me wonder. Christa and I do not often, if ever, have the opportunity to be at church together. I'm in the choir loft and she's in the Sunday School wing. On a rare Sunday when we both might be off, we might get to be together.

It also diminishes our opportunities to simply sit in the congregation and be part of the service and not feel some nervousness or drive to do something related to the service. I think that's why I enjoy the summer because you have more of those opportunitites.

Of course, this comes from someone who is interested in the ministry which would require participationg every

Saturday Potpourri

• I finished my first full week of running since...well, high school. Most other attempts at running have been spotty at best or only haoppen a few days during the week. I am looking forward to resting up on Sunday and building on what I was able to do so far. I weighed 196 this morning and have lost two pounds overall since New Year's. Not bad.
• Christa found a wedding dress and the bride's maid dresses as well. We have had a productive week of wedding planning and it will continue.
• I had my one hour of radio glory on WRST Friday from 5-6 PM. I know at least two people were listening. My good friend Peter Brooks called in to the show and gave me a post-show talk. We actually had a real live caller who had a good question as well. Jason Dufek and I talked about residence life, college student life and how students can "get involved." I had fund, but I doubt I am on my way to a life in radio ;).
• Christa and I head up to Green Bay in a few hours for a Wedding Expo. If we sit through a one-hour presentation, we can get some free stuff. I'm game. And, I'll only miss one half of the first playoff game. I think I get to keep my man-card.
• My home computer is not working. I am typing this entry from the computer in my office, which conveniently, is only about 10 feet from my apartment :). I ran an anti-virus check on my computer and when my computer re-booted, it stays in a continuous re-boot loop. That's what I get for trying to fix my computer.
• The Bucks traded for Earl Boykins and gave up Steve Blake. I can say this is probably the most one-sided trade I have seen for the Bucks since I have followed them as a team.
  

Jim, Media Darling

Having already been on Titan TV five times for various episodes of Kube-itz, I am amazed at how many people will come up to me and say something to the effect of, "Hey, I saw you on Titan TV last night." As I have said if previous blogs, Peter, Dave and I are a pretty good team when it comes to 80's trivia.

Already having some media exposure this year, I am proud to announce that I will be on 90.3 WRST at 5:00 PM today. Drew Van Wyk does a radio show called WildEyed Radio. The topic of the program will highlight the Community Advisor position so that students might find out more about it. I will joining Jason Dufek, who was also a guest.

If you get a chance, you may want to listen. I will try to be profound.

Job vs. Career

When I was at the WCPA Conference earlier in the fall semester, I attended a program that Peter Brooks put on called "Orbiting the Giant Hairball". The program focused mostly on inefficiencies found in many of our administrative processes. Near the end of the program, he talked about something that really stuck with me. It was the idea that career and job can be different things.

When thinking about being a music teacher, it would have been my job and career. When I got out of graduate school, I viewed being a residence hall director as being my job and career. Much of what I did during my day had to do with my Residence Hall Director position. Being in my 4th year as a Residence Hall Director, I see things differently. I feel established in a community. I am getting married in less than six months. I feel a call to a different profession. I have passions in areas outside of housing.

I am starting to realize that being a Residence Hall Director is a job. It is a job that I enjoy very much, but it is a job. It is not my career. My career lies on another path, one I continue to explore and refine. It doesn't mean I view my RHD job any less, it just means it is one part of me, it is not all of me. I have appreciated feeling more well-rounded and well-balanced when I can put my energy into many areas.

Passion

As I write this entry, I have complete the second part of my two-day Senior Staff Retreat. While yesterday was a field trip, today we stayed on campus and did two different things.

IDI Explanation
The IDI is the Intercultural Development Inventory. All CAs and PAs on campus as well as A/RHDs took the assessment and we had a session that discussed the overall results of our department. I will not get into great detail about the assessment, but I did come away somewhat frustrated. I felt like some questions that I had did not get answered so I will have to do some follow-up assessment. Feel free to give me a call and I'll let you know my questions. There is also a website to check out.

Afternoon Activities
In the afternoon, we played Boxers or Briefs with members of Senior Staff. This was fun. I did not win, but I managed to connect with a few folks on answers. We also played the "Tap Game". If you are unfamiliar, a group gets is a circle, sits down and closes their eyes. A few members of the group are pulled out of the circle to participate. A facilitator reads a statement such as, "Tap someone who you feel is a good leader." Those outside the circle would tap the folks that, for them, fit that statement. I enjoy this activity (it sometimes even makes me cry).

I highly recommend this activity as a closure activity. Some thoughts as I reflect on today's "tap game" and those I've done before:

1. I have been surprised to be "tapped" for areas where I assume that I wouldn't.
2. Similarly, I have gone "tapless" for statements where I thought I would be tapped multiple times.
3. I always fear how people who receive few taps feel about this game. That is one drawback to the activity.
4. When your colleagues are highly skilled, you often find yourself tapping many people for many statements.
   
5. It really hurts to keep your eyes closed for that long :).

Other News

• I was invited to WURHA 2007 as a Conference Guest. Score!
  

Quick Update

Today we traveled down to Madison for an A/RHD mid-year retreat. It was an interesting opportunity to tour two of UW Madison's new residence halls; they also provided a variety of presentations about first-year initiatives as well. This will be helpful information as we think about the NBC Village as well as thinking about a new residence hall here at UWO. It made a for a good day; I had the opportunity to chat with Peter about a variety of key issues including discussions about Star Wars.

I have been running again instead of walking over the last few days. It has been wonderful. Hopefully it keeps up. One way or another, I am exercising. :)

We Are Marshall

Last night Jen Hass and I saw We Are Marshall. My pre-viewing reconnaissance let me know that reviews are more to the end of favorable, so I figured it should have been a pretty good movie. That was definitely the case. I really enjoyed the movie. I would give it a 7.0 out of 10 which is a solid score for the movie.

Positives:

• The soundtrack was excellent. The movie takes place between 1969-1971 so you get lots of classic rock. The original score is also very good; I am considering purchasing it on I-Tunes.
• The movie moves along pretty well and does not leave you hanging too often. It didn't have the boredom factor that The Good Shepherd had.
• I liked that many of the actors are lesser known actors; it made the movie feel more real.
• There were a few emotional moments that did not go over the top or seem cheesy; the script was very well written.
• I liked that the ending credits showed the actors that played their characters next to real people (those that were still alive).
• The actor they got to play Bobby Bowden was dead one. Impressive.
  

Negatives:

• I wasn't a fan of Matthew McConaughey. I just felt like his acting didn't quite fit the bill.
• The football scenes were not all that good.

I would definitely recommend seeing it. It is not doing all that well in theatres which surprises me.

Sunday Reflection

Steve Kaehr led his first service at our church this morning. It is a good feeling to know that you have someone coming in who will be at the church for awhile. He did a wonderful job. Among the things that I appreciated about his first worship service:

• He used an older version of the Doxology. There is something about singing "Amen" on the VI-I chord progression that just accentuates the fact that you are at church.
• His sermon was longer than what I'm used to, but it was interesting. He introduced himself in a thoughtful way and tied into the message of the baptism of Jesus Christ.
• He had an Old Testament reading, a New Testament reading & a Gospel reading. You can never have enough bible verses in church :).
  

I am excited to see over time how the congregation responds to his style of worship. I am definitely on board.

Other Thoughts:

• I have checked out the first in a series of books that our church library has that interpret various books of the bible. I thought it would be a good supplement to the bible reading that I am doing throughout the year.
• I need to schedule an SPRC meeting soon. I will hopefully take care of that tomorrow.
  

Saturday Potpourri

• Christa's planetarium presentation went very well; now I wish I would have gone to the presentation. It sounds like any nervousness she had did not get in the way of her doing a wonderful job.
• Christa goes home today to hopefully find a wedding dress. Among my many other things in life, men have it pretty easy in the wedding clothing department. In 30 minutes at After Hours, I was able to reserve tuxedos for the wedding party, ushers, fathers and myself. Mine's already ordered and will be waiting for me on June 14. Christa has had a much bigger ordeal finding her dress and bride's maid dresses.
• A weekend of NFL playoff football. Sweet! There are some good match-ups this weekend; sadly, the Packers will not be in one of those match-ups.
• Character creation for my AD&D campaign continues. Three characters have been created with four more on the way. My goal is eight characters to start with and I think I have the eighth person picked out.
• A FUMC Oshkosh church member and choir member Milo Cushman died on December 31, 2006. His church service was this morning. I didn't know Milo all that well, but he would sings on and off with us in the three years I have been a member of the church. I got frustrated with how often he did not come to choir. I didn't think it was fair that he could sing at church, but not rehearse. I did not know until most recently that he had been battling cancer for the last ten years. Talk about not having the while story and judging someone...I learned a valuable lesson.
  

Habits

On Wednesday, I had the hugest craving for a candy. And, I relented having a Milky Way bar. It tasted good, really good. It was the first candy bar I had since Sunday. When you don't have something for a little while you realize how truly good something can be; it honestly tastes like a treat because you don't have it all the time.

My two biggest goals this year are to cut down significantly my consumption of both regular soda and sugar. I had gotten so used to both of them that I never stopped to think about how much of it I was consuming. It was getting almost disgusting. So, for the five days of the new year I am doing a good job cutting these down. When I do have them every once in awhile, it makes them more special.

Breaking habits are tough, especially really old habits. I have had more success this year than ever before. There are a few reasons for this, in my opinion:

• Christa - She has been helpful in holding me accountable to the things that I have resolved to do. She takes a genuine interest in me being a better person. It's one of the many advantages to marrying her :).
• Prayer - God has been very helpful in this endeavor. I feel stronger and feel a real purpose to making these changes. They will make me a better person and a better Christian.
• Maturity - I have more background and experience to draw from and can see some truly destructive habits in which I have engaged.

Hopefully, things keep going on as they are. I have more energy, less stress and I feel better about who I am.

Other News:

• Christa does her first planetarium show tonight at the Buckstaff Planetarium. You should check it out! It's at 7:00 PM. I have never been inside it before and I got to see it for the first time last night.
• So far the response to the second semester AD&D campaign has been good. People are creating characters and excitement seems to be high.
  

I-Pod Anniversary

Today marks the one-year anniversary of the purchase of my 30 GB I-Pod. Outside of Christa's engagement ring and my life insurance policy, this is probably one of the best purchases I have ever made. I use the I-Pod in my apartment, in my office, when I exercise and when I drive. It has made music, which is very important to me, mcuh more accessible.

It doesn't look like new anymore. In fact, it is pretty scratched up from so much use. I can live with that.

If you are thinking about getting an I-Pod let me know. I can definitely offer some perspective.

Relationships U

My friend Ryan Bronkema had created a website to launch his career as a speaker/presenter. I was very excited to see the Relationships U website last night. It offers some great perspectives about relationships for college students. He also offers other topics for presentation. I encourage you to check it out.

It's only a matter of time before Ryan becomes famous. I am just glad I knew him before he got all famous :).

Student Teaching

Loyal readers (all 10 of you ;) ) know that my undergraduate degree was in choral and general music education. To complete the certification process, you needed to complete student teaching. My student teaching experience divided out to be one quarter in high school choir and one quarter in elementary general music.

By the time I began student teaching, I was very sure that I was no longer interested in being a music teacher. It's not that I regretted my musical education; in fact, I would glad that I now have that background. But, the thought of being a classroom music teacher deal not have the appeal that it did four years before.

On my morning walk today, I walked by Oshkosh North high school. I did my student teaching my Oshkosh West, but regardless, it got me thinking about my student teaching experience. Sadly, when I recount this experience with folks I can honestly tell them it was one of the worst experiences I have had in my life. I got nervous every morning and dreaded almost every experience of being in front of the class.

As someone who doesn't mind performance and public speaking, this might seem wierd. As I reflect, much of it has do to with the fact that I did trust my own musicianship; I always had a fear that I was not teaching them correctly or that I was not a good enough singer. It always haunted me. There were many moments when I wanted to quit outright. Thankfully, Jacque and my dad were very caring and supportive, but were also helpful in letting me know that I should continue through the experience.

My supervising professor knew that I did not want to go into music education as a career. I actually made an appointment with her early on to drop out of student teaching. She told me that if I did so, I could kiss goodbye any chance of getting a recommendation of any kind. In hindsight, I realize that wouldn't have made much difference because I never really needed a music reference in my career anyway.

Alas, I stuck to it and made it through. And, although stressful and not all that fulfilling overall, I came away with some good experiences. You can chalk it up to being one of those experiences that "builds character".

Why would I even talk about this on the blog?

Ultimately, we are all going to have experiences that may not be enjoyable. But, we find that when we complete them, we grow as people. I have become fond of this verse from Proverbs 19:21, "Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails."

I realize that we go through peaks and valleys in life. My experience in student teaching has been very helpful to me since that time. It helps me to know what I don't want to do with my life, but it also helps me to find postiveness and meaning in something that could easily be completely lumped into being bad. God has a way of leading us to things we never thought we'd do. This is one of those experiences. I know we have all had them. Know that no matter how bad something might feel at the time, there is a meaning behind and lesson to be learned.

The Good Shepherd

Christa and I went to see The Good Shepherd on New Year's Eve. We were the beneficiaries of a Marcus Theatres gift card from my parents, so we took advantage. I had meant to see this movie with my Dad, but we were not able to fit it in before I headed back to Oshkosh after my stop at home.

Despite my usual low expectation for any movie lately, I went into this moveie with high expectations. There was a solid cast of actors, good previews and a good spy/military story to go with it. I also went to this movie without reading the previews. I really liked the movie. I would give it 7.5 out of 10. Strangely enough, the reviews of this movie were definitely on the side of it being bad.

The Positives:

• Excellent performance from Matt Damon. You really felt for his character at times.
• Good musical score.
• Although sometimes confusing, I liked the flashback element.
• Good story line that kept you into the film and where it was going

The Negatives:

• This movie was too long. The last half hour was tough to watch...you wanted it to be over.
• I did not like Angelina Jolie is this movie, at all. I'm not sure who I would have picked, but it would not have been her.

I would recommend that you see it. While it may get a bad wrap, I think it's worth seeing.

The Letter Is Sent!

After many drafts and revisions, I have finalized a letter to the District Superintendent stating that I would like to become a candidate for the ministry program for the state of Wisconsin. Barring any steps along the way that I might have missed, I will hopefully be approved and will be assigned a pastoral mentor who will lead through the next stages in the process.

I had contemplated sending the letter as an E-mail, but thought it would be more official to actually send it through regular mail. I will await a response; I am excited to keep moving and see where the process goes.

Other News:

• The Badgers won the Capitol One Bowl. It was the prettiest victory you''ll ever see, but it was a victory. For a team that relies so much on its running game, the Badgers were able to effectively pass the ball when the running game was being shut down.
• Wedding planning is definitely making some major progress. We will be doing a food tasting in the next few weeks, we have started our gift registration process and we are starting to work on the list that Christa generated over break. June 16 will be coming soon!
  

Bad Store Names

This is the name of a store in Mayfair Mall in Milwaukee, WI that sells large bean-bag chairs. Don't you think they could find a better name than this?

Ok, maybe only my mind is in the gutter.

A Market For Organs?

Happy New Year! It is the first post of 2007. I am hoping that with the residence halls opening today, my posting schedule will become a bit more regular. I have always found the concept of New Year's to be somewhat flawed; if you really think about it, the new year can start whenever you want it to start. But, I go along with convention.

I was reading my most recent edition of The American, and there was an article that outlined the idea of having a market for organ donation. The example used in the article was for kidneys. It explained how long the waiting list was and how often people go without a kidney because there aren't enough resources.

I encourage you to read the article and post your thoughts on the blog.