Settling In...

Before you say anything, I realize it has been a really long time since I have posted anything in this blog. The blog is certainly not dead, but I have definitely been a little busy. It was quite a month of June.

The month began with the NACURH 2007 conference here in Oshkosh, WI. Two weeks later, I got married. Then, Christa and I went on our honeymoon. Then we got back and we had to move to our new apartment in Webster Hall.

There are volumes to talk about for each of those items, and I will get to it all. Please stick with me.

Another Remote Post

Today I am posting from the NACURH 2007 Conference Registration Center, located in the Fox River Room of the River Center. We are expecting around 2,000 participants in the conference. It should be a spirited weekend.

I am a co-advisor for the Programming Committee. It has been a slightly chaotic day dealing with the canceling of session and the switching of sessions. Sadly, many of the changes have resulted from oversights on our end. That's not good.

My stress level is quite high as I assume that I will not have all that much free time until this conference ends on Sunday evening.

New Phone

As part of the "Renew Every Two" program with Verizon Wireless, I was eligible for a new phone. So, Christa and I went to the store in Appleton to get a new phone.

In speaking with the sales person in the store, he said that this phone had most of the features my previous phone had because I did not need a lot of bells and whistles.

The key thing is that any phone that I get would: (1) actually keep a charge and (2) would be able to charge up without requiring a strange ritual of futzing with the cord.

So far I like it!

Post 400!: Sleep!

Last night, sleep was very difficult to come by. For the first time since high school I slept somewhere that had a dog (that I had to take care of). Needless to say, I slept awful. I usually never sleep well the first night I sleep somewhere different, but when you add a canine in the mix, it only got worse.

Buddy would bark at the occasional car, would come to check in on me and this would keep me up. Plus, any sound I heard Buddy making seemed strange and I was worried that he may be in trouble or that he was up to not good. My sleep came in 30 minutes chunks at best for most of the night. By around 4:00 AM, I was finally getting some regular sleep.

Other News
Preparations for the homily are going well...let's hope people learn something. I have been re-sucked into Oblivion. I have entered into the Dark Brotherhood and the Thieves Guild. That sounds so evil. I can counter it by saying that I have moved along in the main quest line as well. That fulfills the powers of good. :)

Broadcasting From a Remote Location

As I type these words, I am sitting at the computer at my pastor's home in Oshkosh, WI. He and his family have left for the weekend, and I am watching the house and taking care of buddy, their dog. In some ways, I am treating this weekend like a retreat. I have work to do and much of it will probably best be done in quiet and tranquility, which I will have for much of the weekend. The tasks that require my attention?

This Sunday's Homily
As will now be the tradition for three years, I have led the church service at First Oshkosh on Memorial Day weekend. Everyone else has plans, and I'm always around so I can usually step up. Of all the times I've done this, I feel the least nervous about this Sunday. I think the previous times I've tried too hard and this time I'm coming at the word of God from my level instead of pretending to be sophisticated and deep. I think it will be more meaningful for the congregation and more meaningful for me. We shall see.

The Continuing Ministry Process
For those that have read the blog for awhile, you know about my contemplation of the Methodist ministry. The next stage of the process involves a discussion with my pastor about a book entitled The Christian as Minister. Steve is having me write down some points from the book that cane spearhead a discussion. I hoping that I can hand this to him upon his return on Monday.

Wedding Tasks
As always, I will need to spend some time working on stuff related to the wedding. I have updated the guest list, have worked on getting the word out about the wedding to members of the church and have a few tasks to work on this weekend as well.

Video Games
I am also hoping to get some quality gaming in. I would say that gaming isn't quite the same when you don't have surround sound and you are playing on a 17" TV monitor. I will try to manage. ;)

Last Thought
Overall, I realize that I am trying a little too hard with this blog. It is interesting to see the cycles that have occurred. It took we many tries (and failed blogs) to finally post consistently. Once I had that down, I thought it would be good to post every day. Little did I realize that my life is not always exciting enough to post every day. So, I am hoping to find a happy medium as this point. I would like to post regularly, but it won't mean every day anymore. (Sorry to disappointment my loyal readers...all 10 of you. :) )

Closure

In a few minutes, I will heading over to our A/RHD staff meeting. In addition to our regular meeting, we will be doing a closure activity. We do these every year, so I'm ready for it. I'm not the hugest fan, but I understand why we do it. You want to bring some kind of, um...closure to the year. I suppose that's healthy.

This morning's closure activity will be more difficult to get into for me. Next weekend we have the NACURH conference (moderately stressful) and two weeks after that I have a wedding (majorly stressful). When combined, I am more stressed now than at any point in the year.

But, come June 18...all will be well. I will be a married man on my way to Vegas with the woman I love. Woot!

Weekend Update

I traveled home to Mequon to pick up Gizmo from from where he was being boarded. Christa and I were unable to pick up our wedding bands (not ready yet), but we were able to hang out at Mayfair Mall for a little while. In the afternoon and evening, I completed the storyline for Call of Duty. Now, I just need to gather up the courage to get my butt kicked in on-line play.

On Sunday I went to Veteran's-themed worship service at church in the morning. It was very good. In the afternoon, I worked on wedding and church stuff interspersed with games of Marvel: Ultimate Alliance and King Kong. I am a much bigger fan of the Marvel game. It has occupied much of my time recently. I ended up getting something like 400 achievement points this weekend.

A Day of Catch-Up

Last night was a great opportunity to catch up on things that had been loading up for awhile. I was able to reserve all of the hotels and the rental car for our Honeymoon. I was able to catch up on paying bills and doing filing. I was able to get some other work done for the wedding. I was even able to get some work done for the SPRC Committee.

With my second bedroom becoming the storage place for wedding gifts, it was taking up the space I use to work in there. So, I removed all of the gifts and put them in storage. That freed up the work area and I was able to do much more. I think I now almost completely caught up.

Other News
I would also point out that Christa played brilliantly in her softball game last night. She had three hits, a walk and three RBIs (read: she's better than me :) ). It was nice to sit back and watch a softball game, although I was asked to score the game which takes away from the viewing potential...so many things to pay attention to.

Christa and I will also be going to the Winnebago County Courthouse to get our marriage certificates today. Just another step that shows how deep I'm in...I don't think I can back out of this now ;).

NACURH is quickly approaching...June 1st! Things are beginning to get a bit more stressful, especially trying to juggle NACURH duties with wedding preparations.

The Funeral Experience

I arrived in Brookfield at around 12:30 PM for the funeral of Mary Jane McIntosh, Christa's grandmother and someone that I had the opportunity to meet a few times at various Christmas, Thanksgiving and Easter celebrations with other members of the McIntosh family (Christa's mom's side). It was hard for me to really focus on anything related to work in the morning because I was thinking about the trip and thinking about what to expect.

The service was at a local funeral home and it gave me the opportunity to meet many of Christa's family members. This was also an opportunity for many folks to get their first look at the guy that Christa was marrying. One month from now, many of them would be back for a wedding anyway. The service was a wonderful opportunity to learn more about Mary Jane and what a great person she was. I appreciated the pastor's use of the Great Commission in his eulogy:

"All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."

After the service, I was part of my first funeral procession and when we made it to the burial plot, the pastor has more inspirational words and said another prayer which I had yet to hear in an actual service that I attended:

"In sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life through our Lord Jesus Christ, we commend to Almighty God our sister Mary Jane; and we commit her body to the ground; earth to earth; ashes to ashes, dust to dust. The Lord bless her and keep her, the Lord make his face to shine upon her and be gracious unto her and give her peace. Amen."

Then it was off to a luncheon which provided another opportunity to connect with family. After a few hours, I was pretty exhausted and needed to head home. It was a draining day, but what energy I had left went into the evening choir practice.

Funeral Today

I will be heading to Brookfield, WI today for a funeral. Christa's grandmother died after a long fight with something that that not been clearly identified. She has deteriorated for awhile, but nobody thought she would die this quickly. I am afraid there isn't much else to talk about today.

Victory!

It only took 19 games and my second season of playing softball to finally be on a team that wins a game! It came down to the 7th inning, but we managed to put one run over the plate in the bottom of the seventh to win the game 13-12. We had some timely hitting in the sixth inning which really gave us the opportunity to win the game. It was nice to make individual contributions in a game that helped the team win.

Games	At Bat	Runs	Hits	2B	3B	BB	RBI	AVG	OBP
2	6	1	4	0	0	1	0	.666	.714

It was really windy last night, so that added an extra dimension to everything. The wind was blowing to the outfield, so catching fly balls was fun. I only had one ball hit to me and I caught it. I also felt for the pitcher because the wind would carry a lot of his pitches.

Either way, we won!

The Building is Empty...Almost

This past weekend was incredibly chaotic! The Breese staff was busy doing a variety of checkouts and I was generating the paperwork necessary to allow residents to move over to Evans for interim. The last few people were moved in our roster program, so right now I have four residents in the building...all of whom are staff.

To right the stress of closing, I have been logging in some serious hours of gaming. Oblivion has taken the most time and has garnered quite a few achievement points. I also recently purchased Call of Duty 3 and have been working my way through it. I am excited to become part of the on-line multiplayer community as well.

Other News
Now that the building is closed, Christa and I can kick into high gear with the wedding. We are now getting to quite a few tasks this week and we are looking good. It's a month from Wednesday...eep!

Tonight is our next softball game. You will know about the stats tomorrow. Tonight should be windy.

Radio Silence

You may not be hearing from me for a few days. It is building closing season and things will get busy. I have not abandoned the blog :).

Softball Season 2

Thanks to Thomas Pedersen, I have been asked to join his men's softball team for the summer. Nothing can beat my perfect season (0-17) last summer, but I have the opportunity to try things out with a new team. Our first game last Monday was rained out, but today the nasty weather seemed to go around us and the game was on.

I knew a few folks on the team besides Thomas. DJ, Shane Leach and Rich Scott were the other folks that I knew. Otherwise, it was a bunch of people that I did not know. They seemed very nice, but I did not necessarily feel a connection to the team. They have all played together before, so it will probably take a little time to get into the flow.

I played in right field which is probably a good spot for me. Not too many balls hit my way, but the ones that were I caught :). I proved that I have speed on my side. I ran out a single my second at bat. I accidentally overran third on my first at bat...too fast.

In what became a popular segment last year, I will continue to keep you posted on my results playing in weekly softball games on Monday night.

Games	At Bat	Runs	Hits	2B	3B	HR	RBI	AVG	OBP
1	3	0	2	0	0	0	0	.666	.666

Other News
Christa and I had our second meeting with our pastor regarding the wedding and marriage. He gave us a nice to do list for this week. We also had a good, heart-felt chat about where we were at. I know I am feeling better about the wedding preparation.

Pick Up the Pieces

While a great funk song, it also sums up the coming week. I have let me room degrade to shambles because I haven't been around it much and when I have, I have had no desire to clean my room. That needs to change soon...it was pretty gross.

Christa and I are going to be doing lots of wedding stuff today. We meet with the pastor and organist this week. We finalize our reception plan this week. We are wedding band shopping this Saturday. I will be making some purchases for gift bags this week.

NACURH hits crunch time this week as we need to finalize the materials for the binder this week. That should be interesting.

And...we close the building. Good times.

The Streak Ends!

Well, the Brewers won 10-0 last night. In addition to a lopsided victory:

• It was Jim Gantner bobblehead night.
• Sodas and hot dogs were $1

All in all, it was a good evening with Christa and my parents. Perhaps now, I will not be viewed as poison for a Brewer's victory ;).

The Weekend To Come

This weekend is the weekend before finals and at does not disappoint. Here is an overview of the weekend that will be.

Friday
Christa and I travel home to pick up my parents so that we can go to tonight's Brewers game. Let's hope my losing streak ends tonight.

Saturday
Christa and my mom will be at a bridal shower for Christa, so this leaves me Dad and I free. Perhaps there is something we can find to do with our free time. Perhaps a viewing of Spiderman 3?

I will be traveling back in the afternoon to get back in time for the Residence Life/USRH banquet. The Breese delegation will be 16 strong and we will be dining on wonderful food and hearing about a variety of awards. My wife to be is in charge of the committee that decided many of these awards...her lips are sealed and that's good :). I know that I will be a friend of USRH, which is cool.

After that is the USRH formal. It's a James Bong theme. You can't beat that.

Sunday
After church, Nick will be coming to finalize the bachelor party as well as other wedding arrangements. Sadly, we have not been able to game for a few weeks, but it will be nice to have Nick up to visit again.

Then it's time for the NBC Picnic in the mid-afternoon and a NACURH meeting at 6:00 PM.

Somewhere this weekend I will get the chance to catch my breath and get charged up for checkout. Enjoy the great weather!

Getting To Old For This?

On my continuing odyssey to find games for the XBox 360 that fit me, I have been successful with only a few. Sadly, the game that I have enjoyed the most is Uno. Uno? Are you kidding me? A $300 machine and a $50 subscription to XBox Live to play Uno?!?!

I am starting to think that video games have gotten too complex for me. I grew up in the ear of Nintendo and Super Nintendo. The games were (relatively) simple and straightforward. Now, games are really complex. I am still catching up to the concept of the first person shooter game. I can only imagine what that will be like when I try playing with people from around the world.

Even RPGs are pretty intense. Oblivion, while really good, seems to be too complex for me to figure out. I will continue to search for games. When Call of Duty 3 is available for rental, I am going to check that out. There has to be more than Uno :).

Ok, I'll Admit It...

...I am a fair weather fan of the Brewers. This team is 17-9 and playing entertaining baseball. They lead their division and are among the top teams in baseball. How could you not be excited about this team?

I will admit that I have been, at best, a casual fan of the Brewers for much of my life. I could tell you starting line-ups each year and could hold a reasonably detailed conversation about the Brewers. If the game in on the radio, I'll listen in. If the game is on TV and I'm at home, I'll watch. But, when you lose...a lot...it's hard to stay motivated as a fan. The Bucks and Packers have had success in the last ten years, the Brewers have not.

When the Brewers are on Monday Night Baseball of ESPN and are getting leading articles on ESPN.com you know that your team is relevant right now. You have more of a desire to care. So, I'll admit it, I am a fair weather fan.

I will be going to the game this Friday against the Pittsburgh Pirates. I am taking my parents and Christa to the game. I have horrible luck with attending Brewers games. They usually lose when I am there...just ask Jason Bock about that. Hopefully, my luck changes.

Cleaning Catch-Up

It amazes me how dirty your apartment can get when you let it go a few weeks without cleaning. What usually is a one afternoon project has turned into a much larger multi-day project. But, when completed the apartment should look nice for the two-week stretch run before the end of the semester.

Happy Birthday wishes go out to my mom who is celebrating today. We will look over how old she is :). I am hoping to stop down to Mequon on Friday evening for belated birthday wishes and an opportunity to visit home.

Weekend Wrap-Up

Despite its craziness at times, this past weekend was very nice. I had the opportunity to push up my Gamer Score on the XBox 360 significantly while some very "interesting" people while playing UNO on-line.

I dealt with two pretty intense incidents from the duty weekend. As a result, my sleep schedule got thrown off completely. When you're used to going to bed at 11:00 PM the thought of going to bed at 3:00 and 2:00 are markedly different. I am hoping to get back on track in the next few days.

Over the weekend, the NACURH programming committee slotted over 300 programs for the conference. One major step down, a few to go until the big conference.

This week continues the craziness of the past and things don't lighten up until May 11. Woot!

Weekend Duty: Day #1

Well, let's just say that the evening had a little adventure than I anticipated. Hopefully Saturday night is a little more relaxed.

Friday evening represented a large step forward in the XBox 330 department. A few improvements:

• I posted by gamer score on my blog now. Now you can track my geekiness.
• I rented Viva Pinata for the weekend. I have tried it here and there. It is OK.
• I purchased Galaga, Bejeweled 2 & Uno on the XBoix Marketplace.
• I achieved all 200 achievement points for Galaga in 30 minutes.
• I have become a big fan on playing Uno on-line. You meet some crazy people at night, but I have also met some really fun people to play with.
• I got Christa onto XBox Live.
• My gamer score is up to 1,500.

Yes...I am a dork.

Guess Who's on Duty?

This is a warning to all who dwell in Breese Hall this weekend. Jim Droste is on duty!

It will be nice to be around the building and be a presence this weekend and it will also allow me to get a lot of work done this weekend...and I have a lot of work to do.

Daddy'll Sing Bass, Mamma'll Sing Tenor

I received a phone call from a member of our church saying that the church choir was being called back together to sing each Sunday until the end of May. When out music director left, I assumed the choir would be done for the remainder of the year. It was wonderful that he stepped in and brought the choir back.

I was curious to see who would show up given the hard feelings that some had over the leaving of our music director. Some of the regulars were not there...but, there were some folks who have not been to choir that are now back. I can not say for sure why.

When I arrived, there was only one tenor. Although trained as a baritone in college and a bass in high school, I bit the bullet and sang tenor as well. Yikes! Singing tenor when you sing bass can definitely be a strain on the vocal chords. However, it was interesting to see music from another perspective. The tenors often fill in harmonies in chords and have a smoother line than bass parts.

When you get used to something, it can be hard to change. I think this tenor experience will be good for me.

Reading Update

A few months ago, I mentioned that I began reading the Left Behind series. I had no idea that the series had been out for so long. It shows you how out of the Christian loop I have been for awhile. Needless to say, I finished the fifth book in series on Sunday night. I have seven of them to go. It is a very compelling series and I am interested to see how it keeps going. I will talk more about these books when I have read them all...that may take a little while.

Since I did not get a chance to get to our church to get the sixth book, I began reading Bill O'Reilly's Culture Warrior. A few years ago I read Who's Looking Out For You? and I found the book very interesting. What I appreciate about O'Reilly is that he does not make issues a matter of liberal vs. conservative or Republican vs. Democrat. In his latest book, O'Reilly looks at secular humanism vs. traditionalists. From what I've read so far, he is worried that secular humanism will ruin the fabric of our nation.

I would definitely agree with him on that point. We'll see how much I agree with in the meat of his book. When I'm done with him, I'll be moving back sixth book in the story of those left behind: Assassins.

Running Away

As I was playing Oblivion last night, I came upon an interesting realization. As with any game, the more you play it the more you realize the subtle nuances and the easier it is to be more efficient in your playing. That has been the case. I have discovered that sometimes the best strategy for survival in this game is to run away.

Now, the game won't necessarily let you run away from creatures...they will keep going after you. What I mean is that instead of going in with guns blazing, you go in with a hit and back off plan. This allows you to re-group and plan your next strategy. On a gaming level, I can cast spells on a creature and stay out of attacking range or I can heal my character to get ready for the next round.

This seems to go against our common perceptions of facing life. Instead of always needing to go in right away and get it done right away, there is something to be said for taking things ins chunks or taking care of what is reasonable and knowing that the rest of it can get done later. Sometimes it is OK to run away :).

I realize my posts of been erratic lately. I am trying to make a commitment to post more often. I also want my posts to be more meaningful. Some of them have really stunk lately.

The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion

Mark, my 1st floor CA, told me about a game that I would really like...it's called The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion. It is a role-playing game, and unique to many of the RPGs I have played before. I resisted for as long as possible, but I picked up the game a couple weeks ago and I have already put about 20 hours into the game thus far. Here is what I really like about the game:

• Experience - In most RPGs, you gain experience based on the creatures that you kill. in Oblivion, your character has seven major skills (blade, light armor, spells, etc). When you use these skills, they improve. When you improve 10 levels in these skills, you go up a level. It is a new and refreshing way to level.
• Versatility - This game is wide open in terms of the path you choose. You can pick from a large variety of quests and do them in any order you want. If you are stuck on one quest line, you can move to another and then you will unlock more quests. It is impossible to get bored...there is always something new. I have around 10 open quests at the moment.
• Alignment - Along with quest versatility, there is also character versatility. If you want to be "evil", you can. You can steal, kill innocents, be part of the dark brotherhood and run around with a bounty on your head. You can be nice and do all things lawful. Everything has a rating.

I would recommend checking this game out for your XBox 360. It is pretty sweet and quite addicting. I am resisting the urge to play right now.

Weekend?

Let's break down the weekend and see where any free time might creep in:

• Friday afternoon I am helping in the selection of NACURH 2007 programming.
• Friday evening I am joining some residents of Breese Hall to celebrate Michael Huck's 19th birthday at Texas Roundhouse.
• Saturday morning we may be finishing NACURH 2007 programming.
• Saturday afternoon Christa and I will be at our wedding shower at Jacque's condo.
• Saturday night is Relay for Life.
• Sunday morning is church.
• Sunday afternoon is gaming.
• Sunday evening is the staff recognition party & NACURH.

Yeehah for free time... :)

I Sewed a Button

In an unfortunate buttoning incident yesterday, the button to my pants came off. Luckily, I was able to switch pants before going to my next meeting, but that did not stop the long-term problem of having to replace the button.

Jacque led a session, as part of a A/RHD Staff Development, that taught us how to sew on a button.

After getting frustrated playing XBox 360 and having a little time on my hands last night, I sewed the button back on my pants. How cool is that?

Gaming for Charity?

Mark and I went to the Credit Union today to count up the money that we raised for the "Gaming For a Cause" program held in Breese Hall over the course of the weekend. Can you believe over $50 was raised? Who knew that playing video games could so greatly benefit the community :). My hats of to Mark, the residents of 1st floor and other members of the Breese Hall community past and present that made it possible.

With that money alone, Breese has reached its $1,000 fundraising goal. And, we have a lot of money unaccounted for that will cause us to crush that goal. Most exciting!

Take a Deep Breath

Writing this blog post while I am working the desk gives me an opportunity to step away from the craziness of the next few weeks and lets me relax if but for just a few minutes. I encourage you to do the same...take a break, and relax. Enjoy the warmer weather!

The Next Step

For what it's worth, I finished 321st out of field of 952.

I have decided to take the next step and register for the Fox Cities Marathon! I will have plenty of time to train as the race is not until September 23, 2007.

In the mean time, I am hoping to do a few smaller races to fill in the gap until the big event. As I mentioned in an earlier post, the races give me something to train for and they keep my motivation up.

I managed to eek out a 3-mile run this morning. My muscles were not excited about it, but it at some point I need to get back into the swing of things.

Stay tuned for pictures...they should be coming soon.

Results

I finished! I checked the website yesterday afternoon and the final time was:

1 hour, 49 minutes, 13 seconds

My goal was to run the race in under two hours, so I feel good about my pacing and my effort in the 13.1 mile event.

The secret for me was to start slow in the beginning to get warmed and as the race went on I was able to increase my pace and pick people off as I made my way through the field. I could tell that my mile splits were getting faster and faster as I went along.

It was great to have Christa and my Dad there for the race. I saw them at the 5-mile mark and at the end of the race. I saw various folks that I knew during the race including Petra, who was around mile 4.

Now I need to look for the next race in which to participate. They are great motivators!

A Return to Geekiness

Today has been a busy and stressful week. I have had many meetings and much work to do. I have a few things to finish up today and then I can have a relatively relaxing weekend. There is some business to take care of tomorrow. I have 13.1 miles to run on Saturday morning. Woot!

But, after that...I can truly return to geekiness. I will be participating in a Breese Hall 24-hour video gaming marathon that ends Sunday at 9:00 AM. I am not sure how long I'll be able to go, but I'll do my best. Our AD&D group will also be meeting again this Sunday. After one month off, we return!

Catching Up

The final month of the college academic year are quite hectic. You are wrapping up one year and beginning to think about the following year. If you throw in an upcoming wedding a NACURH conference in June, things can get really hectic. So, the entries in here may be more sporadic and may not be as exciting as usual. I shall do my best.

Christa and I got our first wedding gifts in the mail. I didn't realize we would be getting them this early. When you do your registration on-line, it will actually show you what gifts have been taken off the registry. I suppose it can make gifts less exciting, but it is also fun to know what will be coming in the near future.

I rented Lego Star Wars II for X Box 360 over the weekend. It was pretty good. I am glad that I didn't buy the game now; it is definitely a game that I will pick up when it goes down in value. What I really enjoyed were the cut scenes. They adapted scenes from the movie and made them humorous.

I recently purchased The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion. I haven't played it for too long, but from what I've seen it's incredible.

I Suppose This Means I Have to Do It...

The Oshkosh Half Marathon is this Saturday and thankfully the weather is beginning to improve for the weekend. I am not that excited about running in 20/30 degree wind chills. I combined the Half Marathon and Relay For Life hoping that folks might want to make me run 13 miles for the sake of charity. Some members of the church have sponsored me and have made their donation contingent on my completion of the half marathon. That gives me the motivation I need to finish the race!

Regardless, my donation page is HERE if you would like to make any donations for Relay for Life.

Happy Easter everyone!

Big Brother For Gaming

Wanna know what your fellow XBox 360 players are doing? Check this out. You can see what game they are playing, what their status is and you can know all about their achievements and accomplishments. Very interesting...nothing is safe.

The parents are coming to Easter service tomorrow. Very cool!

New Look

As today is Good Friday, the beard officially gets shaved off. Every year I grow a beard beginning with the first measurable snow fall of the year and ending with Good Friday.

I must say it is a weird feeling to not have facial hair. I got quite used to it. However, I know my mom will be cheering when she reads this :)!

Safe travels to everyone going home for the Easter!

Fun Quote

Dr. Egon Spengler: Well, let's say this Twinkie represents the normal amount of psychokinetic energy in the New York area. Based on this morning's reading, it would be a Twinkie thirty-five feet long, weighing approximately six hundred pounds.

Winston Zeddemore: That's a big Twinkie!

Nothing great to report today, so here's a fun quote. What's it from :)?

Snow? Seriously...at least the constrcution is done.

I woke up at 7:00 AM for my morning run and it was 28 degrees outside with a 15 degree wind chill factor. How quickly I forget the Wisconsin winter and the fact that it never really ends until late May. It was snowing when let my apartment to head over to the office for work.

If you may remember they were doing some light construction work behind Breese Hall. They finished up today. At least we have a gravel path to get into the building...no more mud pits!

A Small Donation

Ever wonder what $50.00 in pennies looks like? You do now.

I think 1st floor won the penny way for Relay for Life. Muahahaha!

Wish #1...

In the field of student affairs, during ice breakers & team builders we often get asked some strange questions. One question that always stumps me is, "If you had three wishes, what would you wish for?"

I am never good with answering this question. I can not usually come up with anything so brilliant that I would want to use a wish on it. Today, I came up with one. I would wish that swearing was not allowed in casual conversation. I find it so frustrating to walk down the street and hear:

• "Really? That un-f^&*ing believable."
• "Yeah, that exam was a bunch of s^&*."
• "What the f%^& is up with that?"

What a waste of the English language. Can't we come up with something better? Can't we set a better example for our peers? Say, "NO" to swearing.

Or...I could be like Solomon and ask God for wisdom. That might not be a bad option either.

Weekend Preview

Christa and I were originally going to be part of the Engaged Encounter retreat sponsored by the United Methodist Church. Unfortunately, only two couple signed up for it so it got canceled. That freed up the weekend nicely. It also gives me an opportunity to get some things done this weekend.

• XBox 360 Playing Time - Who am I kidding? It's going to happen.
• Watch a Movie - Christa and I wanted to see "300". Now we will have the chance to see it.
• Clean My Apartment - I will be hosting three socials for prospective RHD candidates. If they get the job, they will be getting my apartment. I figured they should see it.
• Wedding Preparation -Christa and I have a few more invitations to get out and also have some other wedding planning stuff to do.

Should be fun. Give me a call this weekend. I'll be around.

Geek Information

I thought I might enlighten the less geeky on two interesting things that were brought to my attention in recent days:

Star Wars Stamps
You can have a say in the new Star Wars stamps coming out from the United States Postal Service. May be they think they can mask the price hike (to $0.41) by coming out with this nice, geeky collection. You can even have a vote in what stamps they uses. Start here!

"The Gamers"
My friend Nick brought this movie to our most recent AD&D session and since the session was canceled, we watched this movie. It was created and produced by the Dead Gentlemen. Regardless on your level of knowledge about role-playing games, you will find this movie very funny. It has the quality of a student film and brilliantly captures the culture and humor to be found in AD&D and similar games.

That's all for today folks.

The Bike Returns

Depending on where you are in the country (or the world), you may not necessarily know about the unseasonably warm weather we have been having in Oshkosh. Yesterday, it got up to 75 degrees. We broke a 40 year old regard for a high temperature.

Still not necessarily sure what I was going to do with my little brother on Monday night, he suggested that we go bike riding. He had a point; the weather was wonderful! So, I got the bike from out of storage. it only had a little dust and the tires needed a little bit of pumping up. It felt great to be outdoors and it also felt good to get back on the bike.

Hopefully the weather holds up. Running is a lot easier when the weather's warm.

Mmm...video games

For those of you that are curious, I am pretty much back to normal after the wisdom tooth work. I am eating as I did before and I was able to run and lift weights today. I am going back to the oral surgeon's office this afternoon for a follow-up. Let's hope everything is progressing as it should.

Many thanks for Mark Medinger and Nick Sayner for giving me some games to try out for the XBox 360. I rented Saint's Row as well to give that a whirl. It was OK, but I did get tired of the game after awhile.

I then rented The Godfather for the XBox 360. This game is pretty sweet. I plan on purchasing it after I turn in my rental copy. There is something about actually going through a plot line that runs along with the movie that is cool. You can rob banks, steal shipment trucks, take over warehouses, extort businesses, bribe cops (or kill them) and work your way up in the Corleone family. Good times.

I am finding some real utility to renting games first. You can get a real sense if the game is for you before you buy it. Like Nick, I am also considering a membership with Gamefly. It might prove a decent alternative to purchasing games. We'll see.

The Road to Recovery

I write to you today in a much better state than just a few days ago. I am eating solid food again and I do not feel the need to sleep and lay down all day :).

Luckily this wisdom tooth stuff only has to happen once.

I survived!

Well, the wisdom tooth surgery is done!. The picture you are seeing is about 30 minutes after I got back from the oral surgeon. Don't I look so happy?

I spent all of yesterday on the couch and overall the recovery is going well. The lowlight of the day was throwing up after trying to something. I think we tried to food up the food chain a little too fast yesterday.

I was fearful of how I'd be feeling this morning, but the swelling has not increased and I am feeling less pain today.

I will continue to keep you posted as we go. I am thinking I am going to get out there and take a walk this morning; they said no strenuous. It would be nice to get out of the apartment just for a little while.

Small Repairs

As I mentioned yesterday, it's spring break right now for the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh. As I was wrapping things up last week, I was informed by the residence life facilities office that some work was going to be done on the piping to Breese Hall. I found this curious because my staff and residents had pointed out that the basement had been humid and had smelled like steam.

As you can tell by the pictures, break periods provide an excellent opportunity to get some more major projects done around campus. Those of you who are residence hall students may not necessarily realize some of the larger projects that get done during breaks. They provide a great opportunity to catch up on projects, especially without anyone in the building...except for me.

They spent most of Monday digging out a large chunk of the ground near the high side entrance to Breese. They are examining the steam piping and it looks like it may need to be replaced. I am not sure. That makes things complicated because as part of the project will involve them shutting of the water on Wednesday. I won't have any access to water in my apartment. It should only be one day, but it is possible that it could be more. I am glad that I could get some pictures...it's quite a war zone.

Other News
For some reason my counter is off a day. I go in for my wisdom tooth work tomorrow. Fun.

Spring Break!

My spring break began on Saturday, but I haven't found time to write anything until today. On Saturday the wedding invitations were prepared and are now ready to be mailed out. That night, Nick and Shawnta invited us over to their apartment for dinner. The dinner had a "skewer" theme with main course being shish kabob and the dessert being fondue. We also had fruit skewers, shrimp skewers and sausage and cheese skewers. Yum! It was wonderful!!

Sunday and today, I have been slowly cleaning the apartment, but I have distracted by my newest purchase. I figure the XBox 360 will keep me busy while I am resting from having my wisdom teeth pulled.

UWO Relay for Life

I am participating in the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh Relay for Life. If you were interested in helping to sponsor me as part of the Breese Hall team, you can click and donate via the Internet. Thanks!

CLICK HERE!

The Semester Mid-Point Report

It is unbelievable to me that the spring semester is half over. As with every spring semester, it feels like it just started. This semester has been a great ride and much has been accomplished:

• I am feeling muscle gains in my abs, chest and arms. I am in the best shape I have been in many years. I am hoping these gains continue through the second seven weeks of the semester.
• I am excited to run a half marathon. I know I can do it! It will be nice to make it official. May there be a marathon in my future later in the summer? Perhaps...
  
• Wedding plans continue to move along. Invitations will be in the mail tomorrow. I suppose that means the wedding has to happen. I am getting more excited about the wedding and I have enjoyed helping out where I can.
• I think I am buying an X-Box 360. I know too many people that have them and the games just look so good. You may be hearing more about this soon.
• I filed my taxes yesterday. I should be getting a nice refund...which may pay for the X-Box 360!
• I will be continuing along in the ministry candidacy process as well.

Wow! Things are looking really good right now. A relaxing spring break will be wonderful.

To all of my Breese residents & staff. Have fun, but be safe!

Ten Miles...

The running craziness continues. To continue the build in the half marathon, I went out for a 10 mile run this morning. Thanks go to Eric Minix joining me on the first five mile loop. It was much appreciated. Although my body is sore, it is not as sore as it was last week for the nine mile run. We'll see if that holds up for the rest of the day. Less than a month until the half marathon.

I Look Forward...

...to a time in my membership at First United Methodist Church in Oshkosh where members of the church will give the staff an opportunity to do their job. I look forward to a time in my membership when drama will not the focus of my spiritual energy. I look forward to a time when I will not be worried about who is calling at home or on my cell phone because it will be about church business. I look forward...

...to better news. I am signed up for the July ministry inquiry retreat for the Wisconsin conference. I am pumped!

Brief Thoughts

I have a few minutes before I move on to my next meeting...gotta love Tuesdays.

I did some interval training with Mike Chastain this morning. We ran eight sets of 400 meter strides with 200 meters rest. it was brutal, but it felt good! I am glad Mike was able to be up and keep me moving this morning.

The weightlifting continue to go well. All of my exercises have progressed in the weight i am lifting. My physical trainer is happy with the gains I am making and is pleased with the consistency that I have shown with the workouts.

I look forward to seeing the differences in my physical shape from January 1 for June 1. Should be good.

Weekend Potpourri

Today I thought I might highlight some of the interesting happenings from the weekend:

• I ate a 32 ounce porterhouse steak on Saturday. For you metric folks, that's two pounds of meat. Mmm...delicious.
• Christa and I are anticipating getting invitations out this coming weekend. We not have almost all of the materials that we need.
• We have another "situation" at the church. I never realized this committee chair position was going to have so many snags to it.
• The gaming session on Sunday went as well as could be expected. I was a little preoccupied with church-related business so I did not have as much time to prepare as I would like.
• I presented a program about music for residents in the hall. For those that showed up, it was a good time.
  

Happy Birthday Dinner

Christa and I will be heading out this afternoon to join my parents at The Porterhouse for dinner to celebrate my dad's birthday. It was actually on the 7th and they were going to go out last weekend, but that was the weekend of OPE. It will be nice to see my parents again, especially with Christa there.

After dinner, we will be heading to Sussex to hang out with Christa's parents before we begin the trek back to Oshkosh. We will be getting the rest of the addresses that we need for our wedding invitations. Plus we will both have the chance to catch up with our folks.

Before that, I continue to look at Community Advisor files, even on a Sunday. Such dedication. Then, it's time to finalize the AD&D adventure for tomorrow. I at least have some sense of priorities. ;)

All This Cooking...

Curses! I really should have taken a picture of last night. The Breese Hall Government E-Board decided that we should have a bratwurst and hot dog fund raiser. We held it last night with the hall government office serving as the ordering room and my apartment as the food preparation room. For the majority of the evening, I served as the grillmaster, grilling the brats and hot dogs and putting them in the over to keep warm.

My kitchen was truly hopping with cooked brats and hot dogs, a baker's rack of buns, condiments (ketchup, mustard & onions). This came only two days after I cooked dinner for my staff which also left the kitchen somewhat of a mess. I managed to stink up the hall smelling both like Parmesan cheese and now bratwurst.

I won't be cooking for a little while...the kitchen should begin to smell like normal...whatever that is.

Nine Miles!

This morning I ran for nine miles! The last time I even came close to that distance was two years ago during RHD training when Bronk and I were training for the "1/2 Marathon for Kittens". The first three miles were a little rough, but once I got into a groove it started to feel good. My muscles were sore, not so much from the running but from being in a standing position for almost 90 minutes.

I continue to look forward to the half marathon.

Bowling

Despite the inclement weather last night (more snow!) our staff ventured to Oshkosh Lanes to do some bowling. We had been planning for a few weeks, but some staff members had things that came up the last few weeks. So, yesterday was the day.

I actually had a good night bowling. I bowled a 137 my first game and a 156 my second game. I had a lot more focus that night than I have had in previous bowling opportunities. I don't bowl much anymore. I used to bowl a lot. That could attributed to the following factors:

• I used to go to a graduate school that had a national champ bowling team. This meant they had good facilities.
• Bowling in the Union only cost $1.50. Sometimes it was free if you knew the right people.
• I had more free time in graduate school.
• I had a really good friend who also liked to bowl.
• It was a good stress reliever.

In Oshkosh, bowling is expensive and the alleys smell like smoke. I don't have as much free time as I'd like. I will need to figure out how to feed this old habit.

Today, well this week...is a struggle

My supervisor gave us the day off on Monday, but I did not take this opportunity because I have too many other things going on in the next two weeks. I did decide to sleep in and try to catch up on some of the sleep that I lost over the weekend. I know that you can't make-up sleep, but I though I'd try.

I slept nine hours and felt a little better on Monday. I decided to skip running on Monday because there was no time for it and I still felt a little worn down from OPE. Sadly, Tuesday did not improve all that much. I am still tired but I am doing my best to get back into my regular
routine. I was able to run for a little while, but I still drained. I am thinking that by the end of the week, things will be close to "normal".

With all the other stuff going on in my life, I still feel behind and in some ways I am. This week will be a catch-up week so that I can be ready for CA/PA selection week. I am hoping that some free time in the office on Wednesday and Thursday will let me get back to where I'd like to be.

Sorry for today's entry not being all that exciting. It is what it is :).

OPE is Over!

Despite one of the worst storms I can remember in Oshkosh in recent memory, the Transportation Center kept to its task and shuttled people to and from Oshkosh hotels and the Gruenhagen Conference Center.

Saturday provided for some wonderful opportunities:

• I got to see Christa play with members of the jazz band. She even did some solos and she sounded really good. I have much respect for jazz solos, they can be very difficult and it puts a lot of pressure on you.
• My good friend (and wedding usher) Hal DeLaRosby came up from Platteville for the OPE social. He stayed over at my place and joined Christa and I for church on Sunday.

I am glad that OPE was over, and am also glad I was able to reconnect with many folks I have not seen in a long time.

Live Remote from GCC

I write this morning's post from the confines of Room 123 of the Gruenhagen Conference Center. We are deep into the Oshkosh Placement Exchange; we are also deep under snow :)! It appears the worst of the winter weather is over. After a lovely winter mix on Thursday, we transitioned to full out snow on Friday. The shuttle services faithfully kept its routes going despite the adverse weather.

I closed the Transportation Center yesterday at midnight and opened it at 7:00 AM this morning. Woot! I think I'll be fine for today, but when I have to open again on Sunday...that's going to sting a little bit.

My pet project during my eight hours of supervision yesterday involved drawing a dungeon for an upcoming Dungeons & Dragons adventure. Sure, I go some funny looks but it was worth it. I found the drawing to very therapeutic in what was at times a very stressful day. Hopefully the players appreciate it as well.

Unlike years before, I am actually able to get some "work" done. In addition to some gaming work, I was also able to work on some wedding planning as well.

Sub-190 Trend Weight

One of my initial goals this year was to finally get my "trend weight" under 190. I think I have mentioned this before, but my runner's log has a calculation where it takes your daily weights and creates an average so as to take into account fluctuations that may occur. This morning when I step on the scale and inputed 188.4 into program, my trend weight came up 189.9. That felt good! Now, on to the next goal, one that will probably be a little harder. I would next like to get down to a trend weight of 180.

Christa and others have commented about how it looks like I'm losing weight, but now I am beginning to see it. The "gut" that I have is still there, but it's much smaller. My muscles are beginning to become more defined and I have more energy than I have had before. I even managed to run, lift weights and eat a healthy breakfast during OPE. This is the first year I have done that.

I look forward to seeing the continued effects of exercise. I appreciate everyone's support in this endeavor.

Bad Weather...Please!

All week I heard about how bad the weather was going to be this week. I was a little worried with the Oshkosh Placement Exchange this weekend and was hoping things wouldn't be too bad. The weather report was saying that the big stuff was going to come Wednesday night with us starting the Transportation Center Thursday at noon.

Before I went to bed, I had my usual prayer. I was reminded of a scene from the movie Patton in which he asked a chaplain for a weather prayer. Patton wanted good weather to continue his invation. The chaplain created and prayed the following prayer:

"Almighty and most merciful Father, we humbly beseech Thee, of Thy great goodness, to restrain these immoderate rains with which we have had to contend. Grant us fair weather for Battle. Graciously hearken to us as soldiers who call upon Thee that, armed with Thy power, we may advance from victory to victory, and crush the oppression and wickedness of our enemies and establish Thy justice among men and nations."

Although we aren't planning on attacking anyone, we do have a mission to complete. I did not pray for good weather, I prayed for the safety of those involved with OPE. The weather is holding out and we were able to get the Transportation Center started without too many problems.

Guilty As Charged

As I had mentioned yesterday, Christa and I have been working on getting wedding invitations ready so that we can mail them out over spring break. I am bad enough at keeping in contact with folks, but I am even worse at keeping contact information up to date. I put myself in charge of compiling all of the addresses for invites. So, I definitely had some gaps to fill. And, I needed to send out the message asking, out of the blue, what people's addresses were. I'm sure it's obvious, but I tried to mask some of my shame in being bad at keeping addresses up to date.

One of my friends was able to figure it out...but, it worked!

Brain.....About to Explode

I have officially reached the most hellish part of the spring semester for me. Over the next couple weeks, many responsibilities come at once. This happens every spring and I'm ready for it, but that doesn't necessarily make it any easier.

Over the next two weeks, I have the following:

• The Oshkosh Placement Exchange (OPE) - This takes place March 1-4. For this, I have to supervise the Transportation Center 19 hours, help with 6 hours or so of interviews and just generally be available.
• NBC Village Staff Interviews - Jocelyn, Michelle & I need to conduct seven hours of interviews for folks that want to transfer to the NBC Village. We will be doing these the same weekend as OPE.
• CA/PA Selection - We will be doing this the week before spring break, but I will need to review all of the files before selection. There are a lot of files to review.
• RHD Selection - Ia m on the RHD selection team. More files and more interviews.
• The Wedding - And to top it all off, Christa and I want to have invitations out when spring break starts. So, we are compiling addresses and ordering stuff so that we are ready.

It's not everything, but it's quite a list. I list these items not to look for sympathy, but more to understand that I have quite a bit going on for the next few weeks, so you may not hear from me too much or see me as much as you usually do.

Many of us in the field of student affairs are in the same boat, so they can tell a similar story. It';s the fun of being in Residence Life. Peace.

The Snow Frog...Thank Goodness!

Today was not the day to run, but I did anyway. Some sidewalks were plowed, some were surely not. But, at least the snow was packable so it provided opportunities for students to build a variety of different snow sculptures or throw snow balls at each other.

During my morning run, I was running on Cherry Street and noticed that a house had decided to build a nice frog out of snow. It was different than the normal snow man and showed a remarkable amount of detail. *sigh* This was in marked contrast to the variety of snow penises that could be found on the UW Oshkosh campus.

To think our residence hall student couldn't find anything better to do on a Sunday afternoon than build a penis out of snow. I will give them credit...the detail in some of these sculptures, was, well, disturbing. Luckily, most of them did not survive the night or were covered with new snow.

Also, in case anyone was curious...I found the following the UW System Code:

UWS 18.06(27) - THROWING HARD OBJECTS:. No person may, in a manner likely to cause physical harm or property damage, throw, drop, kick, hit or otherwise project any hard object, bottle, can, container, snowball or other item of a similar nature on university lands or within or from within university buildings or facilities.

Saturday Potpourri

It's been awhile since I have gotten to write a Saturday entry about random stuff from the week. Here goes:

• Today at noon I will join a few of the residents of Breese Hall to create our ice sculpture for Winter Carnival. We don't really have an idea yet, but I'm sure will come up with something :).
• Christa and I will continue doing wedding planning this weekend. I have added a link to our wedding blog. You can find it in the top right corner of this blog. Check it frequently for wedding updates.
• The AD&D campaign continues to go well. I have had many folks express an interest in joining up, but there is no room. I might consider running two different groups next year, but I'm not sure yet.
• I need to get my car's oil changes, but I'm worried that when I take it to the shop this time they are going to find a bunch of stuff wrong with it. Oh well.
• The Bucks lost again...surprise, surprise.
  

Milwaukee Sports Report

Ok, so the Milwaukee Bucks just suck. This was supposed to be the season that we saw a real turn around. The Bucks had picked up some quality big men to help the front court and you always have Michael Redd. A few injuries later, this team is now one of the worst teams in the league. It's painful...I don't even just the box scores the next day anymore. I know it's going to be a loss. I hope they keep this team together next year. If everyone stays healthy, they have a shot. That requires them all to stay healthy. *sigh*

Here's to the Brewers being a breath of fresh air in the Wisconsin sports doldrums...there's a club with a legacy of winning. Oh, wait a minute. It might be a long spring and summer. Then again, maybe this is their year.

Scandal at Algoma

Last night, I attended the Ash Wednesday service at Algoma Boulevard United Methodist Church. It was a joint service with First Church. I let Jocelyn Crist, friend and fellow RHD, know about the service so we decided that we would go and sit together.

Sadly, the majority of folks in attendance were Algoma folks. However, a few First folks did attend and sat around us. As they sat down, they would look at Jocelyn and I and their glance would take a little longer than usual. Jocelyn picked up on it, too. It was not just one stare, it got to be passing glances and other stares.

I should point out that Christa has a Wednesday night class and knew in advance that Jocelyn and I were going. There was no scandal (sorry). I just found it amusing that if I hang out with a female that is not Christa, it might elicit thoughts and rumors.

Or, I'm just paranoid.

A Running Revolution...Sorta

I am excited to hear of the growing level of participation in the upcoming Oshkosh Half Marathon on April 21. As I have mentioned before, the 2nd floor Breese CA Mike is doing it. He mentioned to me that several of his residents are interested in doing it. My goodness, this might actually turn into a hall program ;).

With a half marathon comes training, and I am also excited to hear about other folks in the building that are running. They tell me that they have run 3, 4 or 5 miles. They have started weight lifting. I can only hope that my new devotion to fitness might in some small way be rubbing off on them.

Eric Minix, the NCC/WCC for UW Oshkosh will be joining me for my runs on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. He started yesterday and I will say it is nice to have someone else along for the run. Conversation always makes the run go faster. Others are welcome to join us. The catch is that I run at 7:00 AM each morning, although by the time I get up and get dressed, it's more like 7:10 AM. I run Monday-Friday. Let me know!

The countdown to the half marathon can be found in the upper right hand corner of the blog. It's getting close. My schedule running is becoming more regular and I think my body continues to adjust to a higher level of activity. Hopefully by April it's ready. :)

The National Anthem

When it comes to the US National Anthem, I am something of a purist. Based on personal beliefs and some national standards, I believe:

• that you should stand and remove your hat.
• that you should put your hand over your heart and face the nearest US flag.
• that you should not sing along. (that's just me)
• that you should never get the words wrong when you are performing it. If you need the words in front of you, do it!
  
• that you can embellish the notes a little bit. I should at least be able to recognize the melody for the most part.

This past weekend, I attended an event where someone performed the national anthem and I was honestly insulted with the performance. The singer did not really stay in key, missed one of the words and changed the melody so much you wouldn't really recognize. I was very, very frustrated. I was close to the point that I wanted to stop this individual and sing it myself. My voice might break on the high notes, but I promise you it would be sung with feeling and reverence to out country.

*steps off soap box*

My feedback to the event staff supports these feelings and I am hopeful something like this does not happen again.

WURHA 2007 Reflection

Although I had to leave WURHA right after the banquet, I still feel like I had something of a conference hangover for most of Sunday. As such, I didn't really feel up to writing an entry yesterday.

So, WURHA 2007 was a good time. I had the opportunity to present two programs on Saturday morning. One programs was about listening to music; the other program discussed more effective leadership behaviors. If a program is highly rated, it has the opportunity to be selected as a "Top Ten Program." I found out that advisor programs were not eligible for top ten.

At first I was a little frustrated about that. If my program was in the top ten, it should be in the top ten. It took my friends and colleagues Ryan and Peter to put things in perspective for me. They helped me to realize that my program possibly being in the top ten would keep a student out of the top ten. The conference is for the students.

I enjoyed being a conference guest at WURHA. I appreciated having zero responsibility and just enjoying the sights and sounds of WURHA. I also was awarded a WURHA Star Pin by the WURHA president, Kaitlin Connor. That was cool as well.

This was Christa's first leadership conference; it was nice to share the experience with her.

WURHA 2007

I have a few minutes before I leave for a consultation with the oral surgeon. Details to come...if you really want to know.

I will be leaving for WURHA this afternoon. This will be the first WURHA event since WURHA 2000 in which I will have no responsibility at the conference. I am looking forward to presenting two programs and catching up with students and colleagues at various universities throughout the state.

Before I leave, I will also be doing four hours of CA/PA interviews...lunch will get fit in there somewhere. Um, I think. ;)

Have a good weekend everyone...no post until Sunday!

Amusing Story

Thursdays are my new "long run" day on my running schedule. Today called for a 7 mile run and I mapped out a 6.83 mile run. I was making my way along the running route and was running on Main St. for quite awhile. I was looking for 20th Street, but saw a jump to 21st with no 20th. So...I ran to 24th Street hooked up with Oregon and made my way back to 20th.

It wasn't until I got to 20th that I forgot 20th stopped at Oregon; there is no Main St./20th intersection. I completed the rest of my run as mapped. When I got done, I finished the run in 73 minutes. That seemed really slow for 6.83 miles, especially given the fact that I felt really good during the run and felt my pace was pretty fast. I check the run and sure enough I only the route going to Oregon which would allow access to 20th Street.

Re-mapping the route, my run was actually 7.83 miles. That was pretty sweet.

The good news is that I felt like I could have kept running when I was done...maybe 13.1 miles is not so out of the question.

On a side note, I began my weight training yesterday. I'll keep you posted on how that's going.

Happy Valentine's Day

Check out this Valentine's Day card (with thanks to Ashley): COOL CARD

New Book Series: Left Behind

I have recently started reading the book Left Behind. It is the first in a series of 12 books that tell a story of the Earth's last days. I am about 25% through the first book. I must say the plot line is very good and I am getting drawn into the storyline. I have heard that the plot line gets very deep and the characters are very well developed.

My only dislike of the book right now is some of the historical context that the authors lay out for the world of today. I won't go into details, but some of it is a stretch. I realize it's a work of fiction, but when you are trying tell a story of the modern world, some of their changes feel a little out of place.

If you've read these books, let me know what you think.

A New Addition

I went out for a four-mile run this morning. My pace was faster this morning that it has been for a few weeks. I am assuming that the "warmer" temperatures are allowing we to warm up and stretch the pace out a little bit. After the run this morning, I made my way over to the Kolf Sports Center on campus and did eight 100-meter strides on the track.

If you aren't familiar with a stride, you basically take half of the 100 meters and build up to a speed that is not quite a sprint. You maintain this pace for the remaining portion of the distance. I have been waiting until I built up some mileage before I incorporated strides. It is also my intent to start building in one day of speed work each week as well. Hopefully, as the weeks go by we will see some improvement in the mile pacing.

Also concerning additions, I have added a wedding and half-marathon counter to the web page. You, too, can witness the impending doom....I mean, joy! :)

Sunday Reflection

It was nice to go to church this morning and be among the congregation. My parents drove up this morning and Christa was off from teaching. We were all able to sit together and enjoy the service together. It was also nice to sit down with everyone at the fellowship hour and spend some quality time together.

To know that after a refreshing church service and conversation, I had the opportunity to again get to play AD&D. This was truly a blessed day.

Saturday Potpourri

So, what's been happening? Here's my opportunity to catch up:

• Wow...Christa accomplished a lot with the wedding today. It got a little frustrating today as well. We picked reception music today, which can for two music people can be very frustrating. It's done though...and we have a good list. We are also in the process of finalizing the guest list. This is also very much a bear. I am going to create the master guest list. Good times.
• Christa and I ate at Victoria's yesterday. It is on College Ave. in Appleton, WI across from the Performing Arts Center. They have some of the best Italian food I have ever tasted. I had the scallops with the marsala sauce. Christa has a humongous plate of spaghetti. You have to try it.
• Gaming day number two takes place tomorrow. Excitement seemed high after session number one. Hopefully this enthusiasm keeps up!
• Ok, so maybe it's not an overly exciting week ;).

Engaged Encounters

Coming up on March 30-April 1, Christa and I will be heading to the Fond du Lac area for an Engaged Encounters retreat. This event is sponsored through the Methodist Church and it gives couples looking to get married an opportunity to dialog about what it means to be married and it helps couples to realize that a wedding is a one-day event; a marriage is a life-long commitment.

I must say I am intrigued by this event. I had never heard of it before. In speaking with our pastor, he said it would be a great event to attend. It also means we need to begin our meetings with Steve to get things for the wedding together.

Christa and I are also using this weekend to get all details for the wedding planned. Not done, but planned. Hopefully, we'll have everything covered. :)

Dentist Visits Are Never Dull

I went to the dentist for a cleaning yesterday. The good news is that I didn't have any cavities. I did receive some valuable information about flossing and I will now be using ACT fluoride wash. I did receive some more sobering news...

...I need to have my wisdoms teeth pulled. *sigh* My dentist gave me a referral form for a oral surgeon in the area. I will be making an appointment as soon as possible. I made it all the way to 30; I thought I could make it a little longer. I am hoping to have this taken care of during the summer when not too much is going on...we'll see.

I also still have a baby tooth. My dentist gave me a variety of options. I can leave it there and see how long it lasts. His father had a baby tooth his entire life. I can have braces to make room for the baby tooth to come out and have the adult tooth come in (painful and expensive from what I can gather). or, I can remove both teeth and have a bridge where the tooth would be. Too many options, but for now I think I'm going to keep the baby tooth and see what happens.

Dentist trips are always exciting.

Reacquainting With Old Friends

After our staff meeting last night, I had a little time to kill before hall government. I thought I would try prepping for my Sunday AD&D adventure, but I didn't feel like working on that. So, on the spur of the moment, I busted out Guitar Hero. After playing Thunderhorse, Freebird and Mother on Guitar Hero 2, it made me wonder why I hadn't played in so long.

Similarly, while I was showering this morning I wonder why I hadn't started any games of E-mail Scrabble. So...I did.

I try to have a variety of hobbies. However, sometimes I get focused on one hobby that I forget about others. I think we can all be guilty of getting caught up in one thing and liking it, but forgetting about the other things in life that we forget. I suppose that idea goes well beyond hobbies and it can relate to friendships, relations, academics, etc.

I also think part of it is that I have been so busy lately, I think to myself that I don't have time to play video games. There's always time for video games.

Credit Card Debt

As I was driving back to Breese Hall last night, I heard on the radio a commercial about how you can consolidate your debt. Specifically, this company worked with credit card companies to consolidate credit card debt. The claims about savings that they were making seemed quite substantial.

To qualify for their services, you must have at least $10,000 of debt. Wow. I knew of someone who had $7,000 of debt, but I never realized people got themselves into debt to that amount.

Credit cards indeed have a corrupting power and obviously allow us to spend beyond our means.

Weight/Exercise Update

I went out and purchased a new scale last night. The one that I had was over 6 years old and I always felt like it was not very accurate. I went to Walmart and purchased a scale that breaks weight down to the 0.2 pound increments...pretty sweet. It is guaranteed accurate for 150 years.

I weighed myself this morning and I was...190.2. I was a little worried because I have been on a 6-days streak of being 193. I was waiting for the next plateau to break. It did. After my run this morning, I was under 190. I can't tell you the last time I weighed 190. It would have to be during undergrad.

So, I am definitely seeing the benefit of all this exercising. I will be beginning my weight training regimen starting later this week and into next week. I will keep everyone posted concernign the results :).

Confession/Gaming

I must start off by confessing that I did not run today. I was supposed to. There is a -35 degree wind chill out there today and I had no desire to go anywhere outside today! I promise that I will find some alternative for running tomorrow because I do not want to anything like this up.

Yesterday, I had six folks join me for a session of Advanced Dungeons and Dragons. I had current residents, past residents, students from other halls, colleagues and old friends. It was an eclectic mix of folks. We played for about 4 hours, although the first hour was spent more in preparation. So, I am excited for this Sunday when we'll have four solid hours of gaming.

It had been so long since I gamed. I am excited to have a group together that will be playing consistently week to week. You can read more about the campaign at our Campaign Page.

Saturday Potpourri

There are a few loose ends I would like to cover today. It has been a little while since I have done a potpourri:

• Nick coming up to visit today. He is coming to create a character for the upcoming AD&D campaign. We will also be talking a little about the wedding as well as just hanging out. It will be great to talk to him again.
• Tomorrow is adventure #1 for the AD&D that I am starting. It has been over 5 years since I have done anything that is remotely like gaming. I am going to be rusty in being a Dungeon Master and some of my players have never played AD&D before. Christa asked if I was excited; I am now! :)
• Today is the "Bowl for Kid's Sake". I have raised over $130 for this event. I will be bowling with other student affairs folks from UWO. It should be fun.
• Christa and I are now finalizing the gust list for the wedding. There are going to be some tough decisions to make.
• It's the Superbowl tomorrow. Breese is going to have a kickin' party. Come check it out!
  

Despair, Inc.

How's that for a title? If you are at all familiar with the Successories line of products, they are know for pictures that have a word/statement underneath the picture with an inspirational quote or thought underneath. If you work at a university or in the business world, you will see these posters and other items everywhere. To me, they are often sappy and a little overdone.

So...

...I was excited when I found the website for Despair, Inc. It is a parody of the Successories product with a more cynical view of the working work. My favorite example is the one they have for meetings:Now that's funny. I suggest you check out the website. They are pretty funny. You can customize your own calendar, among other product options.

Calling All Exercisers!

Mike Chastain (the Breese 2nd floor CA) and I were talking about running recently and he mentioned a website that would actually allow you to map out your runs and it would tell you the distance. I did a little exploring and found a website called: mapmyrun.com.

If you run, walk or bike this website will be very helpful for you. It allows you to pick a home address and you can plot courses all over the map. You can create a profile and you can save the routes that you have created.

Mike was right...this works much better than a pedometer. :)